Anal sex problem

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my boyfriend lives far away so he comes over every like month or so and this one time we were in bed and i was on my period and he said we could try anal. I was up for trying new things but this was so weird, i couldn't decide if I liked it or not and it hurt really bad, anyways is it normal for it hurt? also it kinnda messed up my insides is that normal? and my boyfriend now really likes anal which is annoying because I do like it but its just painfull so I'm not sure what to say when he asks if we can do anal :/ help please?

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  • mystery7
    8 years ago | pl

    Not every woman likes it. If it hurts too much , tell him. There are other ways of getting off.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    10 years ago | pl

    You should try getting some lube. I believe this is what it was made for. If you said it ruined your insides you might have hurt yourself so get it checked out. If you really do not like it just tell him that. Some people do not like things like this and it just gives them a odd tickling sensations in parts of the body.

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  • thegift
    12 years ago | pl

    Google "prolapsed anus"

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  • ThisIsNotMe
    12 years ago | pl

    If none of the above work, try telling him. He'll probably understand

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  • latoriam32
    12 years ago | pl

    If you were tense, it will hurt worse. Like others have said, you have to use a lot of lube. I find that pure crisco shortening works very well for me and my hubby. It hurt at first, but the more we did it, the better it got. They also have "butt plugs" in the sex store that you can insert back there to kind of train your anus so that it won't hurt. If you don't like it though and it is too painful, maybe you should just tell your boyfriend.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    Take your time, use lube and get him to use his finger first, then two etc. It's about preparation and relaxation.

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  • cib2354
    12 years ago | pl

    Did u use lots of lube u really have to relax and use lots of lube and also quick tim gt him to start with just a finger

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