Anal- gag

Every time I hook up with a guy, he wants to try anal. The thought of it turns me off and makes me hate the guy. I know they want to experiment, but I'm just NOT going to do that. I mean, think of what comes OUT of that hole, and I've heard girls/guys have umm crapped the bed during it. I'm never going to try it. Is it normal to be disgusted by it? No, I'm NOT homophobic (yes, I'm a girl. I have the other hole, which I prefer to use. If you want to do that, as long as its not my butt lol) , I just, myself, am scared and grossed out by doing it. And, If I know a guy's done it, I wont hook up with him, it just... well, ew. Is it normal to hate this idea? I'm not going to change my attitude, I just wish I could explain this to guys that I'm not the only girl that wont "explore her other options". IIN?

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Based on 101 votes (41 yes)
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  • anormalguy

    Yes, it's normal to dislike it beforehand. But you probably gonna like it if you stop being such a prude.

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  • Cosmicgiggle

    Tell him that's what your vagina is for, not your fart box.

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    • Noclone

      fart box-- HAHAHA!

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  • MaximusXXX

    Perfectly normal but until you actually try it and do it PROPERLY you won't really have an objective view.

    I've met girls who told me of horrific anal experiences and then they didn't try it for years until another boyfriend and then loved it.

    There's a very fine and delicate way to do it, and you're not suppose to do it often. Overall though it's normal to be in your position but know that you will come off as crass to some men like they do to you.

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  • ^
    l0l

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  • analsexonly

    The reality is, men prefer anal, and for good reason—it feels way better. If you open up to the possibility of trying it and do so either on your own while you masturbate or with a partner who knows what he's doing, you'd probably really like it too. It can cause better, more intense orgasms for women.

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  • stikyfangers

    All you have to say is that you strongly dislike doing it, and it's nothing personal. Then, tell him, "but here's what I DO like". That way you don't break the mood. Never do anything you are this uncomfortable with.

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  • pandabear1209

    Every guy iv been with wanted anal, I'm like HELL NO. I tried it once and it hurt so fuckin bad I will never again.

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  • soccer2

    I think it's gross too. My bf does as well so that's good lol

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  • I'm the exact same way..I hate anal stuff, but my boyfriend really likes it.

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