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i am a gay man who denied my sexuality for years. during that time i was very anti-gay and now i want to make amends. i don't know of anyone who has done this but i feel nagging need to do it. am i feeling excessively guilty or am i normal?
I'm so glad that you realized you're gay. I'm not homosexual but I believe they have rights. It's normal to feel that way and you should try to make amends with whomever you hurt.
This is a normal feeling, however you can not change the past. You can however get involved in volunteer organizations to help others who are trying to cope with coming out or get involved in gay rights activities. Make a difference in the future. The past is done and over. :) good luck!
Its normal, i imagine everyone who went through denial like so feels guilty about it