Hmm.
Not sure about that.
My first time (at age 16) wasn't great, but it was his first time too so we were in the same boat - it was a little awkward, but it's 8 years down the line and we're married with two kids so I can't complain!
To be honest, I have a really low sex drive anyway, but I didn't have an orgasm or anything - there was blood (mine) running down his thighs and he was beyond turned on...but it wasn't as bad as I imagined.
Also, horseriding doesn't necessarily break your hymen. I used to ride ponies for about 9 years back in the UK - I don't think my hymen had broken back then.
I don't masturbate, either - so I don't know about that.
Anyway - I 'popped my cherry' to a virgin...he's my hubby now, so I've no regrets!
And i'm happy for you that it worked out so nicely ^_^
But even if the likelyhood of mine and your variant would be just equal, i would, personally, stand by my recommendation...except for romantic idealism or love, there's little reason to "lose" it with another virgin(and if love is the reason, then the experience of the partner shouldn't matter one way or the other).
And even though it may be no better with someone that is experienced(there's never a guarantee), at least the chances it'll be awful go down significantly.
As for the lying scenario, yeah, neither masturbation nor sports nor riding necessarily break it, but all of those reportedly CAN, so a potential partner would have no reason to disbelieve if he was told...
Am I wrong for wanting a virgin for my first time?
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Hmm.
Not sure about that.
My first time (at age 16) wasn't great, but it was his first time too so we were in the same boat - it was a little awkward, but it's 8 years down the line and we're married with two kids so I can't complain!
To be honest, I have a really low sex drive anyway, but I didn't have an orgasm or anything - there was blood (mine) running down his thighs and he was beyond turned on...but it wasn't as bad as I imagined.
Also, horseriding doesn't necessarily break your hymen. I used to ride ponies for about 9 years back in the UK - I don't think my hymen had broken back then.
I don't masturbate, either - so I don't know about that.
Anyway - I 'popped my cherry' to a virgin...he's my hubby now, so I've no regrets!
xx
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And i'm happy for you that it worked out so nicely ^_^
But even if the likelyhood of mine and your variant would be just equal, i would, personally, stand by my recommendation...except for romantic idealism or love, there's little reason to "lose" it with another virgin(and if love is the reason, then the experience of the partner shouldn't matter one way or the other).
And even though it may be no better with someone that is experienced(there's never a guarantee), at least the chances it'll be awful go down significantly.
As for the lying scenario, yeah, neither masturbation nor sports nor riding necessarily break it, but all of those reportedly CAN, so a potential partner would have no reason to disbelieve if he was told...
But again, glad it worked out great for you-
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Thanks!
Great reply by the way! Seriously, you're like the foundation of this site!! :)
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haha, thanks ^_^
but i'm sure some people would disagree with a vengeance...
and, great post you made in the first place ;)
xx