wanting to be someone's first and someone's last may seem all good and well, but it isn't viable or realistic.
1. as dad said, you most likely aren't going to find a virgin over 20.
2. even if you did find a virgin for your first girlfriend, you two most likely aren't going to be together for the rest of your lives or even a couple years and once you break up, you're going to be stuck with your un-virgin self and you can't have the expectation of your s/o to be a virgin when you yourself are not.
3. people get into relationships, have sex, and break up and then repeat the process. it's life and it's learning. with your attitude it seems like you think you are going to marry the first person you date/ have sex with and that's not the case, and it shouldn't be. you need to see what kind of girls are out there, what you like, what you don't like and can't stand. and it teaches you what it means to be a good significant other
Am I wrong for wanting a virgin for my first time?
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wanting to be someone's first and someone's last may seem all good and well, but it isn't viable or realistic.
1. as dad said, you most likely aren't going to find a virgin over 20.
2. even if you did find a virgin for your first girlfriend, you two most likely aren't going to be together for the rest of your lives or even a couple years and once you break up, you're going to be stuck with your un-virgin self and you can't have the expectation of your s/o to be a virgin when you yourself are not.
3. people get into relationships, have sex, and break up and then repeat the process. it's life and it's learning. with your attitude it seems like you think you are going to marry the first person you date/ have sex with and that's not the case, and it shouldn't be. you need to see what kind of girls are out there, what you like, what you don't like and can't stand. and it teaches you what it means to be a good significant other