Am i wrong for teasing my friends sexuality

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My buddy and I are both 21, I'm very comfortable with myself and he's not so much. I find jokingly flirting with him or telling him I love him to be really funny because he just gets so pissed over it haha.

We both play hockey so I always blow him kisses or wink at him during practice and usually get my ass kicked for it but it's still hilarious.... usually only funny to me though. I always say "Buh bye, love you, kiss kiss" over the phone or whenever we break off because he gets so flustered in public.

I definitely don't think he's a fag but I think he's got masculinity issues or whatever, am I being too cruel to always tease him about it?

Yes 26
No 17
If it really upsets him 41
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  • Kevinevan
    6 years ago | pl

    It sounds like you're over compensating and that you're actually the gay one.

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  • Y-B-Normal
    6 years ago | pl

    Just kiss him and suck his cock and get it over with.

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    • nutmaster69
      6 years ago

      yes pls

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  • SmokeEverything
    6 years ago | pl

    You think he may be gay and you secretly want to bang him so you tease him because you are uncomfortable with your own sexuality. makes sense.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Or I'm just an ass with a mean sense of humor

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      • SmokeEverything
        6 years ago

        If that's what you need to tell yourself. You seem very interested in your friends sexuality. Deep down you know the truth.

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    • Kevinevan
      6 years ago

      Bingo

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  • driedroses
    6 years ago

    I'm bi but I'd be upset if any of my friends did this. It would be really confusing and make me think that they like me in a romantic way but are too scared to say it..

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    • curious-bunny
      6 years ago

      Aye agreed, it would just cause emotional turmoil

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  • Boojum
    6 years ago

    You're the one blowing kisses at your friend and telling him you love him, and you think _he_ has masculinity issues?

    People who don't know when to stop teasing are jerks and make lousy friends. Not sure why he puts up with you.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Probably cause he loves me

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    some day he will find a friend that doesnt give him any shit

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  • tonyyaa
    6 years ago

    You dont do that
    #BroCode

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  • maybenotsoweird_weirdo
    6 years ago

    Listen my view on the matter is that, between bros on a hockey team, this kind of hazing is fine. Maybe a littlegay if over the top, but fine.
    If you notice that it really ticks him off, lay off the guy. If he hazes you though, open fire my friend because it's hunting season.

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    we all know you are just testing him , not teasing him, to see if he is gay and if he gives in ,you will drink his cum like a slurpee., because you are comfortable in your masculinity.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Sure he'd like that, but he'll have to find someone other than me to do it

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  • Handyman
    6 years ago

    He may just find a true friend to hang out with.

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  • 8C
    6 years ago

    Being gay is not funny, it is actually a serious topic. Jokes are ok at an extreme minimum , but you have no right to attack another mans masculinity just for fun. Maybe you are actually considering trying queer things in your own mind and maybe you are just using your friend as a cover. Either way you need to lay off.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      If he is a fag I'd say I'm just toughening his skin for when people actually come after him. He'll thank me later

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  • thenbhdjesse
    6 years ago

    thats just rude. who cares if he is a "fag" you say that as if its a bad thing

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Not a bad thing, just what it is

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  • e51pegasi
    6 years ago

    Not good, give the guy a break.

    If he starts taking the piss out of you then he's fair game.

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  • Acton98
    6 years ago

    tisk, tisk, tisk.
    I am gay, and saying or calling a gay person a fag is like calling a black man a nigg£r.
    If he is gay and has something for you don't disrespect a very big compliment like that.
    And be careful because you could be playing with fire.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Actually, I’d be insulted he can’t hang out and enjoy my company without thinking about my junk or trying to buy me flowers.
      This is an old thread, he came out to me and confessed to having feelings for me and wanted to try a relationship.
      We don’t talk anymore.

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