Maybe you are more concerned that things are moving too fast - not so much that she is currently broke due to being a divorced single mother.
You guys "know" each other from your pasts, and you've talked on the phone plenty, but you've only spent one weekend getting to know each other face-to-face. It's natural that she'd consider the possibilities of a future relationship with you and the fact that you two live in different cities and someone would have to eventually move - those are things that a mother would automatically start to ponder right from the beginning. Are you worth getting involved with, if you live so far away? Could she see herself living with you? Would you be someone she could trust with her child? Most women don't express those type of thoughts so early into a relationship, but considering her situation, it seems only natural.
Her wanting to go against the norm and actually spend more time with her child, as opposed to working to pay someone else to take care of it, is commendable and should NEVER be considered lazy.
She may not be living the ideal life right now, but that shouldn't deter you from following your heart. She was your guest and she's broke - you shouldn't have expected her to pay for anything.
Am I wrong??
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Maybe you are more concerned that things are moving too fast - not so much that she is currently broke due to being a divorced single mother.
You guys "know" each other from your pasts, and you've talked on the phone plenty, but you've only spent one weekend getting to know each other face-to-face. It's natural that she'd consider the possibilities of a future relationship with you and the fact that you two live in different cities and someone would have to eventually move - those are things that a mother would automatically start to ponder right from the beginning. Are you worth getting involved with, if you live so far away? Could she see herself living with you? Would you be someone she could trust with her child? Most women don't express those type of thoughts so early into a relationship, but considering her situation, it seems only natural.
Her wanting to go against the norm and actually spend more time with her child, as opposed to working to pay someone else to take care of it, is commendable and should NEVER be considered lazy.
She may not be living the ideal life right now, but that shouldn't deter you from following your heart. She was your guest and she's broke - you shouldn't have expected her to pay for anything.