i agree with most of the comments here. she does need to "pay" her own way. if you want to test out the "next step" in your relationship then get her to move near you but not move in with you and see how she goes living there, supporting herself. keep "dating", go the dinner and movies and whatever else you both like doing and see if she offers to help out paying for things. see, i dont know whether she is one of those chicks who thinks the guy should pay for everything and she should be a housewife. but if you dont take risks with love, then you will never find out if she is worth it. BUT before you do anything like that, you need to make sure she knows that she will have to buy her own car and take responsibility for her and her kid and that you just simply cant afford to pay for her rent and food etc. if she gets upset because you wont pay for her and she tries to make you feel guilty, then she is not the one for you, she is just using you.
Am I wrong??
← View full post
i agree with most of the comments here. she does need to "pay" her own way. if you want to test out the "next step" in your relationship then get her to move near you but not move in with you and see how she goes living there, supporting herself. keep "dating", go the dinner and movies and whatever else you both like doing and see if she offers to help out paying for things. see, i dont know whether she is one of those chicks who thinks the guy should pay for everything and she should be a housewife. but if you dont take risks with love, then you will never find out if she is worth it. BUT before you do anything like that, you need to make sure she knows that she will have to buy her own car and take responsibility for her and her kid and that you just simply cant afford to pay for her rent and food etc. if she gets upset because you wont pay for her and she tries to make you feel guilty, then she is not the one for you, she is just using you.