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I have heard of women talking about a guy wanting or asking for their number but I am 23 and this has never happened to me. Does this mean I am ugly?
It doesn't mean you're ugly. I think you are getting many not normal votes because of how you phrased the question. So it is unclear whether to say yes or no
So if someone presses "YES, it's normal", does that mean that you're ugly or that it's normal that guys don't ask your number?
Really bad post, do multiple choice next time or clarify that in your description
It likely has, and you didn't notice. I'm fairly oblivious and I've had my friends tell me that when guys asked me to study with them, it was really flirting. You might also be super pretty! My mom's a previous model and nobody's ever flirted with her because they felt like she was out of their league.
Either way, don't place your self worth in male attention.
Maybe you seem unapproachable? My sister has worked as a model, and she doesn't typically get approached a lot, because she seems unapproachable, and probably has the RBF (resting bitch face).
I think people talk to me more, because I've been told that I have the puppy dog eyes.
Some guys I notice scared women off because they have RFF, or resting freak face, where their facial expressions look continually nervous and freaked out. However, they often are nervous and really creep women out because to them, nervous equals desperate, and often they really are desperate, particularly if they're deliberately initiating a lot of conversation while they're feeling nervous and desperate. That's why a guy must be relaxed around women, particularly if he's going to initiate interaction. Even if the guy is not intentionally letting anyone know he's nervous and desperate, many women can still often read him like a book.
Haha! I manage to have the puppy eyes AND the RBF! Also leaving as "Miss Vanjie, Miss Vaaaaaanjie, Miss Vaaaaaaaaaaanjie!!!"
I've had a lot of people tell me that I'm really pretty, but I don't get asked out often, which is probably because I am a social introvert. I don't really interact with people a lot and when I do, I'm either extremely awkward or I tend to take on the personality of a 'friend' if that makes any sense. So yeah. Looks have almost nothing to do with it. And you don't have to be the one that never gets asked out. If you're unhappy with that being the case, you should ask someone out for a change! I'm sure it will go much better than you think. :)
It doesn't necessarily mean you're ugly. In some cases it can be that the guys think you're out of their league and you would intimidate them.
Try actively approaching guys yourself and asking them if they mind if you sit with them. You might get better results.
It could be that your personality sucks and then all the beauty in the world won't help. But even ugly girls get dates and more. So what do you think the problem is?
We'd have to see you to say if you're ugly. A lot of guys don't ask for peoples numbers tbf, I just kind of shag someone or get close to them then meet up with them again through friends or find them on facebook.
I mean, in what situation?
As if some random guy stops you in the middle of the street and asks for your number?
I can hardly believe that happens tbh.
Everytime i asked a girl for her phone number was after talking to her and getting to know each other