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So I feel like I am a girl but I can't tell anyone that and also I been dating this guy online and he thinks I am girl but I don't feel like surgery's or changing my body into a girl I just want to have a guy body but I do believe that I am a girl.
so am I just gay? or am I transgender
First off, shame on you for lying to this man (and don't cry "homophobia" I'm gay myself). This the type of shit that pushes straight people back to hating us.
And I don't think you are transgender if you are comfortable in your male body looking masculine. That just sounds like a man with some feminine tastes who therefore gets on better socially with women. Being transgender is something else, it's having a condition called gender dysphoria, where you feel a discomfort at your sex characteristics and wish to change them to physically pass as the opposite sex/gender. If you don't have gender dysphoria, then you are probably not transgender.
I don't know. Maybe you are a demigirl or non binary. Or maybe you are a gay guy with a girly personality.
Only you can know yourself.
P.S. Don't catfish people. It's a shitty thing to do.
I disagree with your opinion on more than 2 genders, but i appreciate you not wanting to fuck people over
thank you
I dunno. I'm neutral on this issue. There are cultures who have 3 or 5 genders.
And even if you go sex=gender, like one in 50 people is intersex. And they might even not know it, so there is a risk that you'll be trolling some Tumblrina who ID's as genderfluid with "LOL science" and then she/they will go to the doctor and find internal balls/XY chromosomes in some tissues.
I don't really give a fuck this way or another. When you think about it, giving people different names, pronouns and dress codes based on appearance of their crotch at birth is as arbitrary as 457858 Tumblr genders or the five genders in Bugis society.
thats ridiculous lol
unless they grow 10 nipples or something, but thats still not a gender haha
only two to me though. just as science says
thats not a gender btw, thats a genetic mutation. something gone wrong during birth.
what do you mean? if you have a penis, that just means your a male. theres nothing fake about that
Well, but why do we call a person with a long erectile organ (penis) and no vaginal opening "he" and a person with a short erectile organ (clitoris) and vaginal opening "she"? Give me a logical argument based on science. And bear in mind, there are languages without gendered pronouns.
What is gender, then?
Let's assume that a person with XY in every cell, more T than E, testicles, no ovaries, long erectile organ, no vaginal opening is male. They should wear men's clothes, use men's bathroom, have a boy's name, playing football and getting dirty is cool and badass for them, babbling over a kitten and crying over sad movies is emasculating.
A person with XX in every cell, more E than T, ovaries, no testicles, short erectile organ, vaginal opening is female. They should wear women's clothing, use women's bathroom, have a girl's name, playing football and geting dirty is dangerous for their fragile body and lowers chances of getting a mate, babbling over a kitten and crying over sad movies is cute.
There is a whole loaded package with words like "man/male" or "woman/female". There are not simply a diagnosis of a persons body, but carry social implications.
Let's say a child is born with chimerism. There was supposed to be a pair of twins, male and female, but instead there is one kid with mixed genes. The child has ovotestis, organs composed of mixed tissues and ambigous genitalia. Which clothes, which name, which pronouns, which bathroom etc. would you scientifically give to that person?
If there is only male and female then how come a third option is "defect"? You would say someone is a man or woman, but callig a whole person a defect is rather disturbing.
sorry for long post
Why? Because we associate a male as having a penis and a girl as having a vagina
we've always done this. everybody does this
the united states is just the first country to go mentally crazy to be honest
look at ANY other country and they all have their heads on straight
some things are just personality traits and nobody can define what a male or female can be like
but having a penis is genetic. its a fact of nature. thats why they're a boy. for having a penis. not because they play football
some boys dont. its a personality trait
playing football is part of culture anyway. some countries guys play soccer
its not disturbing, its just the truth haha
if its a defect, then it is. if the genetics were fucked up, by lets saying incest, then yes, its well known that this happens with inbreeding. defects.
its what happens. these things can happen
If you feel you are a girl, you don't have to get surgery, but you might be non binary
Wow, a lot of idiots commenting. I guess it's easy to judge when you're on the outside.
I am a bisexual guy and used to be gothed out so I was considered androgynous. The secretive behavior, just from what I see with bisexuals always ends up backfiring. The gender thing tends to really set people off. If you are "passing" and attractive, you are at risk alone from that. I am not feminine at all but I loved the clothes etc. And I did look like a hot goth chick for awhile so I don't care. I know krav maga.
Don't be surprised if this guy dumps you like a sack of potatoes for lying when he finds out. I for one cannot feel sorry for a liar!
CATFISH!
When you meet this guy are you going to be a girl? Put on some panties then suck his cock its all good