I don't think this is so much of a "morals" issue as it is a "moving out of your comfort zone" issue. You shouldn't have to drink or have sex or whatever just to fit in. But then again if you want to do those things, then you absolutely should.
I will caution you though not to get overly optimistic about improving your social life like this though. There's no magic bullet. I will tell you from experience that going out to parties and getting drunk isn't suddenly going to make you Mr. Popular and one of the guys. If there are other issues impeding your social life then this isn't going to correct them.
Am I too reserved?
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I don't think this is so much of a "morals" issue as it is a "moving out of your comfort zone" issue. You shouldn't have to drink or have sex or whatever just to fit in. But then again if you want to do those things, then you absolutely should.
I will caution you though not to get overly optimistic about improving your social life like this though. There's no magic bullet. I will tell you from experience that going out to parties and getting drunk isn't suddenly going to make you Mr. Popular and one of the guys. If there are other issues impeding your social life then this isn't going to correct them.