Am i too old for her?

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I am 30 year man, I am in friends with a 19 year old college going girl. She is cute and has a thing going for me... We talk not very often.... I am trying to find a girlfriend and possibly consider marriage in next 2-3 years..

I really like this girl a lot, I adore her... But i did not tell her how i feel about her as she is still very young. Also i feel, if she becomes my Girlfriend then she might miss out on her 20-25 age which sometimes i feel is not good for her... I want her to go through life like any normal 20-25 age group would.... so I just keep my feelings to myself...

Lately, there is a guy in her college who seems to be making a move as he has realized that i am interested in her.... so he is making move to get closer to her out of a sense of competition from me or insecurity(they are in same class) ... i think he will propose her soon...i think the guy is just college going jerk/punk (may be i am jealous or something)... but i want to protect her form this guy.... sometimes i feel, if i dont move fast then i might loose her to that jerk permanently...

Can please anyone advice me what to do... I am so lost... I even feel like either proposing right away or completely moving out of her life... in fact, i have stopped seeing her as often as i used to....

Thanks in advance for helping me out guys, Take care!

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  • HersheyKiss07
    14 years ago

    Make your move!! If more people in the world would make a move on things..it wold be a better place! You never know how she will take things if you do not ask. She may be waiting on you to say something. Her 20s could be wonderful with you!

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  • Gtown
    14 years ago

    I feel for ya man. I see your predicament but at the same time I would just go ahead and tell the girl because they will fall for the bad guy if a good one doesn't make a move. They are just as desperate as us sometimes. And why cant her 20's be the best part of her life with YOU?

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  • stone_love
    14 years ago

    Just ask her out. Don't think about proposal, because you haven't even gone out with her yet. Just see how things go. You aren't depriving her of any phase in her life; she will make her own decisions.

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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago

    Hey if you have to question it its probobly not right to date her.

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  • BluntsRolled
    12 years ago

    Creapin status.

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  • Charmo
    12 years ago

    "I am 30 year man, and I know the difference between punks that need a little lesson in manners, and the freaks like you that would just enjoy it.
    And you killed six of my friends."

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  • maya617
    12 years ago

    You're too old for her. Find someone closer to your own age. Having said that, my brother is older than his gf by 9 years, and they have a child together. He's 31 she's 22.....but they fight alot and don't get along.

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  • sherry
    13 years ago

    May-December marriages are awful. It's not fair to either party.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Tell the girl how u feel please she will understand and feel for u and she can help u and u can make those disitions together

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    dont go in expecting marriage, but ask her out man.

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  • WAFFLESQUID
    14 years ago

    I think you should try. Considering the fact you ignore your feelings to give her a better life, I say you are a very caring person.
    Who knows? It may work out!
    I say go for it!

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  • sidknee
    14 years ago

    Make your move and tap that before the other guy does, forget marriage... that's insane and you'll scare her off. TAP IT BEFORE HE DOES! HURRY! lol and then let her experience the fruits and berries of the other guys.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    You are too old. Knock it off pedo

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