Am i to jelious

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Iv been with my bf for well over a year. I'm tearing us apart because I'm so paranoid that he's either lying to me hiding or something from me. At one point it was so bad that I didn't even want him to walk throgh a grocery store. There are only VERY few girls l can stand to see him talk to. He swares to me that he would never do anything to hurt me, but I can't help but feel like he will. Is this something a lot of girls do?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    Wow. When I saw jelisis, or however you spelled it, I cringed and thought about how dumb you must be. Only joking.....

    I hope to goodness it was a typo.

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    • peterr
      9 years ago | pl

      Jelios...even worse to jelios, not too jealous...oh my!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    You grow out of it as you get older.

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  • lemun
    12 years ago | pl

    I can be the same way at times. There are some things that girls like us just need to figure out within themselves. You might be insecure about yourself.

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  • chezycheze
    12 years ago | pl

    I think that if he's the right guy, then you should be able to conquer this fear with him.

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  • merkel204
    13 years ago | pl

    hes kissing some other girls

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    You don't trust him. Why? Do you have a problem trusting people in general. I'm guessing not. So maybe you should trust your intuition. Maybe he is not trustworthy. And it could be you need to reassess this relationship and move on.

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  • aml909
    14 years ago | pl

    I believe this is normal. A friend of mine I have known for more than 9 years is the same way and even worse. She has been with her boyfriend for about 7 years and she has a baby with him, and she gets extremely weird and mad and jealous if I am talking to him and it will be about a new phone or something on the computer or just randomness and she will come into the room and listen to what we are talking about. The point is you have to trust your boyfriend because if he really isnt cheating or lying and you keep accusing him, you are going to annoy him and he might actually do it.

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