Am I to blame for this abuse?

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  • There's Mensline Australia 1300 789 978
    Here's a website for men in Australia:
    http://www.oneinthree.com.au/
    here are resources
    http://www.oneinthree.com.au/servicesandresources/
    Including hotlines and special resources for gay men.

    Preferably don't call any hotline while at home. Tell him you have to go buy something, then go out and phone a hotline in the park or in the public toilet etc. Preferably somewhere private. Then buy something so he won't get suspicious. I would tell you to go to a friend and call the hot line there, but from your responses you seem to have nowhere to go.

    This is a fucked up situation and I'm glad you realized this and you are taking steps to get out.

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    • Thank you really appreciate this.
      Sure, I can even call after work or uni and just lie that my class or my work hours got extended. So I don't create any superstition, since I use his money and he usually wants to go shopping with me. Sadly no extended family here either,they're in Europe and I doubt they want to deal with me.

      Yeah I guess I've been desperate and just clinging on what I thought I deserved.

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