It's never your fault. Your boyfriend hit you first, that's the important thing, not the reason, just the violence. There was no need for it and you totally deserve better.
I agree. If you said things that were hurtful to him and you regret, then that would obviously be okay for you to apologize. But violence is NEVER okay. It doesn't matter what someone says. You want to be with someone who will not abuse you; not in any way, but especially physically. You have to protect yourself. If he punched you and hurt you that badly, he could escalate the next time you argue to something much worse.
Am I to blame for this abuse?
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It's never your fault. Your boyfriend hit you first, that's the important thing, not the reason, just the violence. There was no need for it and you totally deserve better.
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I agree. If you said things that were hurtful to him and you regret, then that would obviously be okay for you to apologize. But violence is NEVER okay. It doesn't matter what someone says. You want to be with someone who will not abuse you; not in any way, but especially physically. You have to protect yourself. If he punched you and hurt you that badly, he could escalate the next time you argue to something much worse.
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That's true, I didn't think about it getting worse. And from looking back on our relationship from the past it seems it just keeps getting worse.
When you put it that way I can blame my self a little less. I rather be called name then to be hit that hard again, so he is at a greater fault.