Am i the only who hate "nice" people?

Well first of all, this is not a big issue or anything but it just ticks me off sometimes (sorry english is not my first language)
Do you all ever have that friends who are so nice and possitive that sometimes it sickening you?
For example, this is what happened in a group chat:
A: haha dont trust what i said, im trash 😁
B: omg A, stop thatt, you are not trash, you are the most beautiful and Amazinggg girl on this planet and we all love you for that!!!you are very smart and ill take anything you have to say!

... I know shes just being nice soo what right? But i swear it triggers me somehow :)))) it just seems so fake and unnecessary. Honestly saying girl B is not a bad person at all, it may not be fake but still... I just simply dont like it :)) anyone have this too?

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  • RoseIsabella

    You don't "hate" them, you're just annoyed by them.

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    • TrisaDiamond

      agree

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  • Iszzy123

    It makes you sick because you don't believe her kindness it true and your not use to ppl talking like that but I say take it better to have a kind friend than a nasty rude bitch

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  • Dustyair

    I don't hate nice people, sometimes they pour it on a little heavy, but that's not a big deal.

    I hate assholes and jerks, shitbag leftists, and agendists, they simply earn it. ;)

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    • TrisaDiamond

      i know what you mean and its really true. However as in my own experience. Some "jerks" turns out to be excellent friends and they are super loyal!They would absolute stay for me in the darkest time. The "nice" people ive met in life just slowly dritfing away somehow...

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  • horny_simpletons

    I can see how over-the-top, possibly fake niceness can be annoying, but even they're better than literal bullies. Know what I'm saying?

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  • Avant-Garde

    I dislike fake niceness, particularly passive aggressiveness. I've recently had to deal with those types of people, my first known taste of it. If you aren't careful that kind of behavior can easily be missed. Nasty people both. I think its best to stand your ground and let them know that kind of shit doesn't fly with you, within reason of course. You can't go telling your boss that unless you intend on quitting or are cool with being fired.

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  • WhereIsMyMind

    It's ok to not be a horrible person but please do not try and force positivity down my throat or be nice instead of being real.

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    • TrisaDiamond

      being real is so underrated these days

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  • Alichael

    When someone tells you that you are so wonderful and great when they know nothing about you, that's dishonesty because they don't know if you're actually wonderful or not, I think that is what makes it annoying. If someone knew you and you really had done something wonderful, and then they told you you're wonderful, that wouldn't be so irritating, would it? It's the ol "you have to earn someone's respect" kinda thing, if you've done nothing to earn it and they still shower you with all this sweetness, that then does sound fake and annoying. Am I right, op?

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    • TrisaDiamond

      absolutely accurate. For your point, the girls i mention barely know eachother too. We just all met in uni for about 2 months.

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  • Fetiza000

    You stole my exact thoughts on this subject.

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  • I also had a friend like that. All the time so positive n shit especially on specific topics. I was like "these rules are shit", and he was like: "oh no they're the best, such an interesting thing and play a vital role in our society and a strong importance for our evolution and the person who made these is a genius and..." in an endless stream of admiracy for literally nothing or some worthless trashy shit people had little interest in doing and was visibly completely messed up anyways. I am an introvert so that attitude used to drain me out of energy a lot. We are not friends anymore. That's pretty much it.

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    • TrisaDiamond

      sameeee, maybe i feel so because i'm an introvert too. I tend to be down to earth and look deeper into the most aspect of life and im telling ya. Such positivity is A LIE. maybe it annoys me because the girl B is spreading more BS to the world :))))))) jk

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      • I don't think positivity is a lie. It's actually crucial in critical moments. I feel it is annoying and nonsensical when it's "empty" and unjustified, just rambling uselessly about nothing.

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      • Pussy_Destroyer_69

        You know who are worse than overly positive guys? People that say they are introverts.

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        • TrisaDiamond

          And the what is wrong about being an introvert? :) You are even weirder than me, go start a poll somewhere hating on introverts. You are in the wrong thread, get out

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          • Pussy_Destroyer_69

            Do you even read? People that say they are intoverts!=intoverts. Also, who the fuck do you think you are to order me around? Fuck off.

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  • itachi_uchiha

    Fuuuck!! its realy annoying sometimes or to be more accurate always

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  • Pussy_Destroyer_69

    Who the fuck says it's trash? And who the fuck wastes so much time into an empty ego boost of both themselves and the one with they are speaking? SMH.

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    • TrisaDiamond

      i should really find new friends...

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  • lordofopinions

    What's wrong with people being nice? I think you think that people trying to be nice to you have ulterior motives.

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  • JustMolly

    i hate it when people do that, its rude i know but it honestly just makes me question if they're an air head or something. totally going to hell LOL

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  • Threshold

    I hate people who appear to be insincerely nice as well. At no time than when I'm exposed to these individuals do I feel the urge to run a six-inch blade hilt deep into their fake faces more strongly. I hate unreality and the denying of the world in which we live in.

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  • amg1028

    I just find it crazy that you think someone can be fake nice. i mean i know its possible, ive met quite a few fake ass bitches in my life. but you should really take it for what it is, unless you are proven otherwise, enjoy the kind words and support, dont look for the negativity. kindness is fucking free so we should spread that shit everywhere, i read that somewhere lol. but its true.

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  • Opaquehaze

    I usually don't care because its rare if someone's being nice because they mean it or because they just want something.

    So yeah it doesn't really seem all that odd.

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  • Mark92

    I am always nice to nice people...

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    • Alichael

      Me too, but only if they're nice first. If they're an asshole to me, I will be an asshole back. I ain't no pushover doormat and I'm nobody's punching bag. If they choose me to take their daily frustrations out on, two can play that game.

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    • TrisaDiamond

      awww dont let me bring you down, im sort of a rude-but-real person in life and this is just a stupid pet peeves :))) keep being nice, nothings wrong with thatt

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      • Mark92

        But then I am very rude to rude people, so it works both ways. I behave with people the same way they behave with me...

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        • TrisaDiamond

          its common senses, i guess. just like how it is in this subject. It would be okay if i was really close to someone and they act nice to me, but for this one, i barely know her, i did not help her out on anything still this is how she treat me back XD , just a bit uncomfortable tbh

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        • Alichael

          Me too. I can't be nice to someone who talks to me like dogshit cause it then makes me feel like a weak pushover. I'm not nice to someone unless they're nice first. I'm not the first one to be an asshole to someone, I just don't pay attention to them until I see how they will be with me, then I'll act accordingly.

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          • Mark92

            Totally agreed XD!

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