What you are feeling isn't love,more than half the time it's just lust.Need for attentions and something deeper than just a friendship.Thinking that Sex is something,an action capable of creating a stronger bond between two people makes it possible for you to get all aroused and wet whenever you find a girl who's beautiful or sexy or funny enough or any other positive attribute you might notice in her and that makes you believe that if you get into the whole thing,you'll end up having somebody you consider as:a little more than just a friend.
Like an "intimate friendship",but the whole sex factor,just makes everything more difficult.Complicates things.If you already engaged in casual sex then you are just asking this question because you are afraid of what the men in your life might think about it.So If I give you an answer now,it would serve as an encouragement,and if by doing that you end up in some sort of trouble fucking your mind up,then I turn out to be the one responsible and I don't wanna cause anything in particular to happen to anyone.So,make your own choice.I'm just giving you the choice I never had.
Speeches aside,fantasizing about having sex with members of your same sex doesn't make you gay.
It makes you:A girl who wants to find out if other girls also have a snatch and how it looks like and how they react to stimulation.Amongst other things.
If you introduce yourself saying:Hi!I'm (whatever your name is)and I'm bi,you might get unwanted reactions of either repulsion or exxagerated interest or even fake acceptance which then becomes a smearing campaign and you are fucked!I'm not telling you to get in the closet and stay there.
Just protect your own reputation and say it,if you really have to,to who "gives off the right signals".
Keep in mind that it will most likely make you more fit to hang out with certain people than other people.That's all.
Am I straight or bisexual? (according to my description)
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What you are feeling isn't love,more than half the time it's just lust.Need for attentions and something deeper than just a friendship.Thinking that Sex is something,an action capable of creating a stronger bond between two people makes it possible for you to get all aroused and wet whenever you find a girl who's beautiful or sexy or funny enough or any other positive attribute you might notice in her and that makes you believe that if you get into the whole thing,you'll end up having somebody you consider as:a little more than just a friend.
Like an "intimate friendship",but the whole sex factor,just makes everything more difficult.Complicates things.If you already engaged in casual sex then you are just asking this question because you are afraid of what the men in your life might think about it.So If I give you an answer now,it would serve as an encouragement,and if by doing that you end up in some sort of trouble fucking your mind up,then I turn out to be the one responsible and I don't wanna cause anything in particular to happen to anyone.So,make your own choice.I'm just giving you the choice I never had.
Speeches aside,fantasizing about having sex with members of your same sex doesn't make you gay.
It makes you:A girl who wants to find out if other girls also have a snatch and how it looks like and how they react to stimulation.Amongst other things.
If you introduce yourself saying:Hi!I'm (whatever your name is)and I'm bi,you might get unwanted reactions of either repulsion or exxagerated interest or even fake acceptance which then becomes a smearing campaign and you are fucked!I'm not telling you to get in the closet and stay there.
Just protect your own reputation and say it,if you really have to,to who "gives off the right signals".
Keep in mind that it will most likely make you more fit to hang out with certain people than other people.That's all.