If you want to be reallllly simple about it, being attracted to the opposite sex is considered 'straight', being attracted to the same sex is 'gay' and being attracted to both is 'bi'. So simply, you're bi.
I can be turned on by watching lesbian porn. I've read a few lesbian erotica stories in my time. I've had lesbian sex dreams. If you gave me a woman in a room, I'd have no idea what to do with her, and no real desire to. They're not simple definitions and you don't have to fit into one.
I personally define gay as being happy to have a relationship with someone of the same gender. Bisexual is being happy to have a relationship with either gender. Sex and relationships are two completely different things in my book.
I think watching oral sex isn't about WHO it is but WHAT they're doing. You're turned on because you see it happening and it stimulates the memory of what it feels like. Also, like you said, straight porn can be rough, whereas lesbian porn can be gentler and more caring.
You're normal :)
Am I Straight or Bi?
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If you want to be reallllly simple about it, being attracted to the opposite sex is considered 'straight', being attracted to the same sex is 'gay' and being attracted to both is 'bi'. So simply, you're bi.
I can be turned on by watching lesbian porn. I've read a few lesbian erotica stories in my time. I've had lesbian sex dreams. If you gave me a woman in a room, I'd have no idea what to do with her, and no real desire to. They're not simple definitions and you don't have to fit into one.
I personally define gay as being happy to have a relationship with someone of the same gender. Bisexual is being happy to have a relationship with either gender. Sex and relationships are two completely different things in my book.
I think watching oral sex isn't about WHO it is but WHAT they're doing. You're turned on because you see it happening and it stimulates the memory of what it feels like. Also, like you said, straight porn can be rough, whereas lesbian porn can be gentler and more caring.
You're normal :)