am i straight? bisexual? even lesbian!?

I've been wondering the same thing, except the opposite. I love my best friend, maybe even more than the man I'm planning to spend the rest of my life with, and I'd love to have a relationship with her, or one of my other close female friends. Sometimes when I have sex with my man (and I love him very much) I think about them. BUT, I'm generally not attracted to women. Like, if I see what would be considered a gorgeous woman walking by, eh. But I know I could have sex with a woman and love it, and I'd rather have a female partner than a male one ... I think it's more emotional love than physical that I have for my friends, and more sexual lust for men. It's a hard choice >.<