Am i straight? bisexual? even lesbian!?

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I have always loved boys, never doubted it for a second! But ever since i was about twelve ive gotten these phases of being "afraid" of being a lesbian. Later on this turned into actually having a sexual attraction towards girls. The thing is, up until now i have never had an actualy crush on a girl, but i find my self fascinated by looking at them. Sexual relations with a female seem alot more appealing to me than with a male, but i cannot in ANYWAY see my self having a romantic relationship with a woman, only with guys. I have even tried to like girls who i think are pretty or whatever and it just doesn't suit, it always stays at some sort of admiration level? I don't know, so is this normal? To feel sexually attracted to girls but romantically attracted to guys? By the way, all my crushes on guys have been very serious and i have never doubted what i feel for them, strange i know.
what does this make me?

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  • sqwert7889
    13 years ago

    I've been wondering the same thing, except the opposite. I love my best friend, maybe even more than the man I'm planning to spend the rest of my life with, and I'd love to have a relationship with her, or one of my other close female friends. Sometimes when I have sex with my man (and I love him very much) I think about them. BUT, I'm generally not attracted to women. Like, if I see what would be considered a gorgeous woman walking by, eh. But I know I could have sex with a woman and love it, and I'd rather have a female partner than a male one ... I think it's more emotional love than physical that I have for my friends, and more sexual lust for men. It's a hard choice >.<

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    • srotoys
      8 years ago

      I think you answered your own question your either bi or lesbian.

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  • bisexualemogirl
    13 years ago

    You sound like me. I had the same fears when I was around 12. Almost everything you said is what has been going on with me. I am bi, but you could be bicurious or bi or neither. No one can decide that for you, ony you can.

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  • karmina
    13 years ago

    You sound like my friend. You're totally normal. You sound Bisexual. You're attracted to women sexually and what not but not romanticall,that's fine. there are so many different types of sexualities, everyone has their own unique orientation.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    You sound very similar to me. When I was young I was "afraid" of being a lesbian. I started dating boys when I was 11. By the age of 14 I had kissed heaps of boys, and I've had strong emotional feelings towards a couple of them. I'm 17 now, and I've only gone further than kissing about two or three times, but it wasn't that enjoyable because I wasn't sexually aroused. Recently I've been experiencing sexual attraction towards girls, not actual friends, but pictures and stuff on the internet. Yet I can't imagine ever having an emotional relationship with a female.

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    • srotoys
      8 years ago

      In your case you solved your curiosity and were not aroused.

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  • uknowitaintmyfault
    13 years ago

    you're a bi, then.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    The post above is stupid. You're probably bi, or it's just a phase. Whateer happens will be okay.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Sounds like you're just curious. I wouldn't rush to label yourself, just take the time to figure it out and even if you can't just accept whatever happens.

    :)

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  • ajmpony
    13 years ago

    That's exactly how I am.... I'm my case (which is actually having done sexual things with girls) I would say that I am bisexual.... But u may just b bi curious.... Find some girl who's willing and figure it out :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Bi

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  • peachciroc
    11 years ago

    http://isitnormal.com/story/iin-that-two-girl-bffs-like-to-make-each-other-horny-and-make-out-146418/?n=y
    are we lesbian?? or bi? help! thank you so much

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  • sophie1994
    11 years ago

    "I don't know, so is this normal? To feel sexually attracted to girls but romantically attracted to guys? " : Exactly my dilemma :/

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  • D-Fib
    11 years ago

    You must be straight then. It's normal to appreciate and admire the same sex. Sexuality is only questionable when your feelings are sexual.

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  • *Cinnist*
    13 years ago

    Also ur alone, i just no i could never be with a girl but....yea ima just leave it at that.

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  • merkel204
    13 years ago

    its ok for two girls to be together,not for guys.so its cool.

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    • *Cinnist*
      13 years ago

      who said its not ok for guys to be together? Its not up to us to judge.

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