Am i scared of boys?!

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i need help! help me with this issue im having...mostly mentaly, its like: theres this boy in my class, he has a GF and hes cute and he is cool. and i dont like him though but we have never talked and now all the sudden he keeps saying hi to me and poking me and wanting to shake my hand and staring at me (its not a love problem, because i think of him as an acuaintance and he prob thinks me as same. but, you see, i havent talked to a boy in 4ever (because of for wut ever reason, all the boys in my class ignore me) and then outta the blue all the ....im not gonna say 'populare' but..... lets just stick to that. and i think they know i get supper tensed when i talk to them so they think its funny. i dont mind it but at the same time my face burns (usualy happens when im embarrased) and ive got this crazy habit, of when ever they say hey to me, i say a loud "HI" chirp. lol i creep myself out! im not looking for any love/crush advice, but i rlly need to know how to stop myself from saying/doing/thinking something that would knock me into not talking to boys at all, better yet, see his GF is my freind and she keeps a close eye (but shes the kind to know her boy isnt a player) and she was the first person to ask me for my phone num cuz i just got my phone last yr and she was the first one to step up and ask about it. i have other ppl number now but, anyways, i need help! or i might burst! seriously man its like not being noticed by your parents all your life and finaly outta no were they decide to get you somethign for your birthday!! he's probably making a friendly gesture, but its kinda in the wrong way!

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  • green_boogers
    10 years ago

    Find a quiet non-threatening boy. Talk to him a bit to get his trust. Be sure to do this in a non-threatening way.

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  • VirgilManly
    10 years ago

    Boys are just as afraid of you as you are of them. You just aren't aware of it because you are too focused on your own insecurities. Which is fine because your classmates are probably too focused on their own insecurities to actually noticed yours. Armed with this knowledge you will have the confidence to deal with others by being able to put yourself in their shoes. Hope this makes sense.

    Virgil Manly isn't good with explaining 'feeling' types of things with young girls. And if your parents haven't explained your monthly visitor then for the love of God please don't ask me to explain it to you. It could damage my manly psyche.

    PS-When I was in school I was a babbling idiot around girls, a far cry from the suave & debonair rascal here today.

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  • Canttel!
    10 years ago

    Darn i had to make another acc lol

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  • megadriver
    10 years ago

    Don't worry. The guy is just messing with you (in a good way). It's a harmless act of friendship. Or he just wants to make you open up to people.
    Also forget about worrying and blushing and whatever. Us guys, we don't bite! XD We talk, we listen to music, we watch movies... Just a few things you can talk about. Roll with it. :)
    We are all normal people. Chat with guys, chat with girls. Be friendly with everyone.
    Also if a guy pokes you, smiles, stares and such stuff, he might have a crush on you. If you like the guy, reply to his advances.
    Just don't mess with douchebags! Nothing worse than a smart, pretty girl being with a douchebag.

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  • gutia
    10 years ago

    He likes picking on you, but that's not a bad thing. That means he likes who he thinks you are.

    he could also be trying to get you to open up a bit, I used to be the same way and people have done the same thing to me so that I would open up to them, and it works, just be yourself and have fun. :)

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    • Canttel
      10 years ago

      Oo okk ill try!

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  • Canttel
    10 years ago

    Yea that exactly what i thought! I dobt know if they just like seeing me squirm or what but NOW i know haha

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