If you have a different place to live then you should leave. You are right, you shouldn't have to raise her kids. She's the one acting like a teenager.
Do what you feel is right. If you are so angry at the moment that you want to cut her off then so be it. Just remember that in the future you will probably regret it (even if you think that you won't). I know quite a few people who are bitter for not having their parents around for different reasons. It's just easier to forgive especially someone like your mom. She'll still always be your mom.
I think you should explain how you really feel and tell her you still love her. Then leave. If she flips out then it's on her. But yeah, leaving is a good idea. Maybe she'll learn to appreciate people in her life a little more.
I tole her how I felt. She doesn't seem to care. I even compromised with her. I suggested she get an abortion because everyone around her is going to suffer including that baby. It's not like she hasn't had one before. But she refuses to. I can't force her to so I left. I told how selfish she was and her reply was I'm a brat for leaving. HAHA. My older brother who is my full brother is 18. My father said not to worry about my half brother. I still kinda wonder what he's gonna grow up like but I can't do anything to control that.
Am I right or am I wrong?
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If you have a different place to live then you should leave. You are right, you shouldn't have to raise her kids. She's the one acting like a teenager.
Do what you feel is right. If you are so angry at the moment that you want to cut her off then so be it. Just remember that in the future you will probably regret it (even if you think that you won't). I know quite a few people who are bitter for not having their parents around for different reasons. It's just easier to forgive especially someone like your mom. She'll still always be your mom.
I think you should explain how you really feel and tell her you still love her. Then leave. If she flips out then it's on her. But yeah, leaving is a good idea. Maybe she'll learn to appreciate people in her life a little more.
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I tole her how I felt. She doesn't seem to care. I even compromised with her. I suggested she get an abortion because everyone around her is going to suffer including that baby. It's not like she hasn't had one before. But she refuses to. I can't force her to so I left. I told how selfish she was and her reply was I'm a brat for leaving. HAHA. My older brother who is my full brother is 18. My father said not to worry about my half brother. I still kinda wonder what he's gonna grow up like but I can't do anything to control that.