Am i obsessing over my boyfriend?

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Me and this guy have been dating for 4 months now, and i feel like hes my world, and whenever we dont talk for a day i start getting fast heartbeats that im afraid hes cheating on me, and i might lose him, i just feel so obsessed cause whenever i talk to him i get scared he might break up with me, and i cant take it, and alot of other girls flirt with him over the interent and im afraid he might be having a cyber girlfriend. and i call him too much and i get soo mad when he chills with other girls , am i okay?

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  • Permadaze
    13 years ago

    There is no greater turnoff to a man when his girlfriend is always after him. Let him chase after you for a change

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      after reading those comments, i feel like i know myself again :D. thhhaaanks .

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  • katie223
    13 years ago

    odds are the guy is either prob cheated on you or has been since you are so self concious about it. You need to chill out a bit and stop obsessing over him because you are just going to end up hurt. You cant make a guy your life. start working on your self confidence. I used to be the same way with my boyfriend now of 2 years. I became really obsessive over him and always be paranoid he was cheating one me. I adventually found out he was..which is usually what always happens. Most men are cheaters. They are pigs and want sex and most of the time a girlfriend isnt going to stop them. Boys dont think the same ways girls do when it comes to cheating. We broke up but ended getting back together after a while. When we got back together i had a whole new outlook on the relationship, it was all about me. I was confident and wasnt constantly worried about him but living my own life. This makes guys more drawn to you.

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    • babygirl96
      12 years ago

      not all guys are cheaters, just sayin.

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      I know what you mean, because im like this is cause my last boyfriend was Soo obsessed with SEX and when i went outta city , he goes looking for his booty call, but i found out by his friend which is the guy, im dating now.

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  • XxxLUVxxX
    13 years ago

    Maybe you should just tell him how you feel but don't tell him you ate trying to be klingy, but you DO need to back off, get concerned over three days or more... Don't go randomly texting him, just send a "hey" or "waz up" if it is just one day.....

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  • LuffySp
    13 years ago

    I think you need to slow down. Four months is a little quick for someone to be "your world" he's going to be turned off. Listen to me, your self-esteem is WAY low. You need to realize how important YOU are before you try to go any further in any type of romantic relationship because if you continue with THIS level of insecurity? Things will get bad.

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  • alv1592
    13 years ago

    ok..i've never been in a serious relationship. but if two people really love each other, they should be able to trust each other. and the more you imagine him cheating on you, the more you believe he really is. don't worry so much because that makes things worse.

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  • yomamaisahoe
    13 years ago

    I know how hard it must b for u coz ive been there myself for a while. U definitely need to try hard(er) and give ur man some space. Having trust is one of the most important thing in any relationship. Keep forcing urself to NOT act the way u r rght now towards ur boyfriend. And as ur relationship matures with time, ull feel lot less insecure and enjoy him for being in ur life even more. Trust me, ive been exactly where u r right now.

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      Yeeaah?

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  • harrypotters
    13 years ago

    Yeah you need to trust him more, you are obviously have low selfconfidence and are insecure. Beacuse of this you think he will leave you for another girl just trust him more or it wont last long like danny said. Also try to improve your condifendence more there is obviously a reason he choose to be with you in the first place over the girls he has been talking to.

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