Am i normal? please provide useful advice

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I am a 20 year old guy. I am a type of guy who likes to party, watch movies, hit the clubs.My height is 6 feet and dress up to date fashion with some designer wear. I keep my self updated with latest trends and music and style. I feel shy when talking to girls and don't usually approach people myself( always end up thinking what to talk about as i don;t know them) My concern is that I don't have a lot of friends, none of which are girls and i believe one true friend and the friends i do have don't do all these things i like. Either they don't get permission from parents or have other interests. At times i want to go to clubs or movies but once my friends can't come i don't go, i feel weird going alone to these places. Also i never had a girlfriend but really feel attracted to girls. Most of the time when i go out i always check out girls and times i want to approach and talk to them but always end up decided what to talk about until they leave.

One more thing i would like to add is that when i talk to people I am too worried about how I should talk to them, and thinking of jokes, t

also the guys that i meet and really feel like my party type, I want to ask their number for further contact, but feel weird thinking that i am asking a guy for his phone number.... is all of this normal? please provide feedback and possible tips.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    I don't know you, but it sounds like you worry too much about being cool. I say this because you talked about keeping up with the 'latest fashions' and you are afraid to do things by yourself. This usually stems from a fear of being judged by strangers (or anyone really).

    If you keep doing things to please other people you're going to make yourself miserable. Try to pursue your own interests instead of being concerned with what others think! :)

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  • PEACEKEEPER
    14 years ago | pl

    do not think what to talk,,,just say what u want to say
    if wrong just laugh and get over it
    say someting is better than say nothing
    WISH U GET OVER IT QUIKLY :>

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  • Glorioso
    14 years ago | pl

    I'd say this is normal, you just need to get a bit more confidence. I'm sure you are a great guy, you just seem like without your friends you won't get on. I'm sure if you just tried it and took the initiative you'd have fun. Oh also btw, when you ask for a guy's number just say to him something like "Hey mind if I get your number so we could go to a club, I don't have many friends who like doing this kinda stuff (I'm not gay btw)". You'll be fine :).

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    GAY!!! Thought bout it?!

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