Am i normal? be honest plz

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Okay, in my opinion, I'm NOT normal.
I am a Bi female, who has dated males in my past(Older, younger, and the same age). All has not ended well. Only three people know I'm Bi(All my closest of friends). And now, I'm attracted to both of my FEMALE bestfriends. I'm dating one of them, but no one knows. I really like her, but something's missing. And I REALLY Like my other friend. She's the one I want... But she's straight. And my girlfriend is Bi as well and in love with me. Sometimes when I'm in class, I think sexualy about my other friend. I haven't told anyone about the thoughts. But I have told her that I like her... One night she said she liked me back, and the next night I brought it up again, and she freaked! I don't want to date my girlfriend anymore, because I'm not totally in love with her, and I can truly only see her as a friend than a girlfriend. WHAT DO I DO!? Please help!

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  • DearWorld
    13 years ago

    have a threesome

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    • aperson33
      13 years ago

      No thanks

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    12 years ago

    I read back at this story, and find it really ironic. Because I'm now single and in love with my ex girlfriend, the one that I said I 'felt something missing'. And my as for my straight friend, she has a boyfriend, and I'm not attracted to her anymore.

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  • MssMurd3r
    12 years ago

    U should break up with ur current gf cuz it's not fair to her.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    lol u sound normal to me i mean this happens to alot of people but theres not much u can do if ur friend is straight then thats the end reli and if ur trying to change her to being a lezbian that would show udont think about her needs onlyyour own if that makes sence

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  • demonspirit17
    13 years ago

    u got a super crush

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  • bodiewangler
    13 years ago

    Don't be with your gf if it's not what you want.

    With regard to your straight gf, she probably was just drunk and thought you were joking. Just tell her how you feel about her and if she doesn't feel the same way that you will leave her alone. And if she doesn't want you, you should leave her alone, because you're always going to be tempted but never going to be able to get what you want. It's unfortunate, but the only solution is to remove yourself from the situation.

    And if it works out please take pics and send them my way :)

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  • sammif
    13 years ago

    i agree wit runnergirl. if u arent in love wit ur gf it aint fair to her. if u can b wit the one u love cool but if not then find somone else.
    easy to say rite? hehe
    wat do u look like? :)

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      Blonde Hair, Bye Eyes.

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  • runnergirl
    13 years ago

    Well, you break up with your current gf. You said you only see her as a friend, so it's only fair to her to let her go.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    It sounds to me like you've fallen for your other friend whilst being with your girlfriend and don't know what to do.

    Having fantasies is okay but when it's not a fantasy and is an actual want/need then it's a problem.

    Only you know how you are feeling. Does your love for your girlfriend outweigh the desire for your other friend?

    If yes, you know the right thing to do but if no, you need to seriously consider what to do and how you feel before doing anything. Good luck :)

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    • aperson33
      13 years ago

      Thanks you....

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