Everything you described in yourself sounds normal and not indicative of any sort of personality disorder. Narcissists are usually extremely selfish and only care about themselves. Its not the same as having healthy self esteem.
Okey, the thing is,sometimes some people when they see some woman who knows what she wants, knows her ability, and wish to succeed and be one of best, is considered 'egoistical, narcistic, selfish. if its man, its quite normal. one man (from my country iam middle eastern eu)told me i have desire to succeed because i was hurt by my despotic mother and i am suffering.my mother has histrionic personality disorder which is somehow connected to narcism. she really was selfish, paranoid,attention seeker,agresive,abusive.
one time it was man Iraque Dr living in London who was like psychologist. he once told me i am too self centered and forgeting about other people and that i should change othervise i will end up alone.of course i was concentrating on myself, i just arrived to other country at that time didnt know what to do.i said to myself first to establish myself - finish school,get a job, and then look for family/friends. and i think its nothing wrong with that...i was just over-thinking:-) i shouldnt think too much!:-)
Its completely normal for anyone to want to be sucessful and be the best at what their good at.
Whats abnormal is people who dont want to succeed and do nothing with their life.
Am i Narcist ?
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Everything you described in yourself sounds normal and not indicative of any sort of personality disorder. Narcissists are usually extremely selfish and only care about themselves. Its not the same as having healthy self esteem.
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Okey, the thing is,sometimes some people when they see some woman who knows what she wants, knows her ability, and wish to succeed and be one of best, is considered 'egoistical, narcistic, selfish. if its man, its quite normal. one man (from my country iam middle eastern eu)told me i have desire to succeed because i was hurt by my despotic mother and i am suffering.my mother has histrionic personality disorder which is somehow connected to narcism. she really was selfish, paranoid,attention seeker,agresive,abusive.
one time it was man Iraque Dr living in London who was like psychologist. he once told me i am too self centered and forgeting about other people and that i should change othervise i will end up alone.of course i was concentrating on myself, i just arrived to other country at that time didnt know what to do.i said to myself first to establish myself - finish school,get a job, and then look for family/friends. and i think its nothing wrong with that...i was just over-thinking:-) i shouldnt think too much!:-)
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Its completely normal for anyone to want to be sucessful and be the best at what their good at.
Whats abnormal is people who dont want to succeed and do nothing with their life.