Am i just over reacting??

56% Normal
6 Comments

soo iv been going out with my boyfriend for just under a year and we have always been fine never argued and not really fallen out we don't really spend much time together,although we see each other at least every other day but we just stay at each others houses but 9 out of 10 times i will have just finished work and have work the next morning!! so to my point we both had the day off today (this is very rare for us as i work shifts) and we decided yesterday that we would go into town have dinner and just spend a bit of time together, but as usual he was too tired to get out of bed!! so after two hours of waiting for him to decide if he was going to get up i just left and came home and now im not happy and have told him so!! he has done this a few time in the past and i always end up doing the same thing!! Am i just over reacting or we this piss you off too??

Is It Normal?
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 6 ) Sort: best | oldest
  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    if he rather sleeps than spending some time with you, you should dump him. no guy is always that tired and he could drink coffee if he wanted to go out with you - if you were important to him. obviosly you're not

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    2
    2
  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    Maybe he really IS tired.
    Nobody sleeps all day long; you may have given up too early.

    I don't think you need to dump him (like the others suggested above), but I think you need to explain to him (and not in an angry way) that it hurts your feelings that he would rather sleep than dedicate his entire day off to you.

    My husband works shift work that doesn't coincide with my hectic schedule very well. Some days are harder on him than others, so if he needs the extra sleep, I always let him sleep, even if we had plans. It's not like he's sleep deprived because he doesn't want to spend time with me; it's just that we are both adults and realize that sometimes you just need those extra hours or you're not going to function properly.

    I hope my perspective helps.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    1
    1
      -
    • iamrobot
      13 years ago | pl

      Thanks yeh i kind of helps i guess!!
      I DONT want to break up with him i do love him andi know he loves me!! This is the only thing we ever fall out over!! He slept like 22 hours yesterday so im now making him get his house checked to see if he has a gas leak (as i have smelt it a few time and all the symtoms match him) so hopefully if we can get that sorted this problem wont be as big as it is now!! thanks all for your advice :D

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      Report
      0
      0
  • runnergirl
    13 years ago | pl

    Dump him now before you're married with kids and he refuses to help with them or the house. You deserve better, and he deserves to be with someone who doesn't want him to change (his mom).

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    1
    1
  • MercedesBenz
    13 years ago | pl

    I agree with drummerguy.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    1
    1
  • D31
    12 years ago | pl

    no girl deserves to be treated like that if i were him and you wanted to go out (im using you as an a example i do this with my gf)i would jump out of bed and grab a energy drink on the way out

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    0
    0