Am i just clingy?

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Ok, well my girlfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship until she moves this summer. That means we can only talk on the phone :( but now because she went over her minutes, and her mom said can only talk on weekends when it's free. Double :( so of course I was really looking forward to this weekend because I finally get to talk to her. But then on Saturday she texted me saying she couldn't talk because she was busy. I said whatever, I'll talk to you tomorrow then. That was yesterday. And now I called her, we talked for all of 7 minutes before she'd call me back in a little bit because she wanted to go tanning. That was two hours ago.

So what do you think? My friends say I'm just being clingy, but now I feel like I'm second to her skin color :/ help? This isn't the first time something like this has happpened, either.

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  • Dempsy
    13 years ago

    My theory is never get your hopes up never be let down. :) seems to do me just fine

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  • ladybeagle
    13 years ago

    long distance relationships are HARD. you want to talk on the phone because that's the only time you have, but you want to live the life that's there while you're there. sometimes there are phases where you talk a lot, sometimes less. if it's meant to be, IT WILL BE. if not, not, no matter where you are. hate to play devil's advocate, but as someone who spent hours on the phone with her future husband when we lived 2000 miles apart for a year, my friends hated that the last few months before i moved, i spent on the phone. think how much it would bother you if she spent two hours on the phone with her friends that she left every night. live the life you're near as best you can, schedule some time to eachother, and get more and more excited for the days when you can be together! (ps: long distance man and i are now married. if it's meant to happen, IT'LL HAPPEN)

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  • soup
    13 years ago

    Piss her off, you need a new girlfriend.

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  • steph19913
    13 years ago

    Show her you don't care it will drive her crazy

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  • Bling24
    13 years ago

    I'm a guy in a long distance relationship too so I know where you're coming from. The same thing happens to me all the time and I always question whether I'm too clingy or not. I had a talk with my gf about it and she apologized and said that when she isn't with me it hurts her to think about missing me so much, therefore she distances herself emotionally when we're not together. Try talking it through with your partner :)

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  • roxylinds
    13 years ago

    She's over it.

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  • fancyj
    13 years ago

    I doesn't sound like your being clingy. I think it's normal that you wanted to talk to her and were let down when she didn't want to. I'm sorry to say this, but as a girl, I think that if she were still interested she would make the time. Maybe it's time to move on. Sorry and good luck.

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  • Star
    13 years ago

    :( anyone?

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