goodness... so many things wrong here. stop it. cut him lose. you're enabling him to be a slacker, and this is not good for your mental health.
I have no clue why this is your closest "normal relationship" maybe you have bad taste in man, or you have very low standards, I have no clue, too many factors.
but still, stop settling for less. if you're looking for a life partner, It might take time. so be patient and stop wasting you're time on this "boys", who clearly still have a lot of growing up to do.
if you have to be single for awhile, that's fine. its not that bad.
maybe they're the problem, maybe you are, I don't know. but I feel it would be great for you to work on yourself, on your life for now.
Am I in the wrong relationship?
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goodness... so many things wrong here. stop it. cut him lose. you're enabling him to be a slacker, and this is not good for your mental health.
I have no clue why this is your closest "normal relationship" maybe you have bad taste in man, or you have very low standards, I have no clue, too many factors.
but still, stop settling for less. if you're looking for a life partner, It might take time. so be patient and stop wasting you're time on this "boys", who clearly still have a lot of growing up to do.
if you have to be single for awhile, that's fine. its not that bad.
maybe they're the problem, maybe you are, I don't know. but I feel it would be great for you to work on yourself, on your life for now.