Am i gay? is this wrong?

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so recently I've been having sexual fantasies about my butch female coworker and one of my male managers.

I zone out and think of a handful of Eiffel Tower moments with the very butch female with a strap on and my boss in my mouth. Is this gay? is it wrong? It's getting to the point where I can't control when my mind wanders off, but I kind of enjoy it??
Is it gay? I mean she's a female but I imagine her with a strap on, and it's worrying me as far as my relationship goes because my on-and-off girlfriend just doesn't feel the same.
So I feel a bit stupid asking this but- is this pretty normal or might I be gay?

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  • Doesnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    Gay : possibly
    Wrong : of course not!
    Normal : no
    Strap ons : hell yeah!

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  • kpdor
    4 years ago

    I think its perfectly normal. everybody's sexuality if so much more fluid than we like to let on. dont worry about labels like being gay or straight. what will be, will be, and enjoy yourself along the way lol

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  • Wellyoudliketoknoweh
    4 years ago

    I mean maybe you’re bi and that’s not wrong at all
    Nobody can read you’re thoughts as far as I know, so up there it’s your world, just try not to zone out too often when it’s important work

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  • noydb
    4 years ago

    1. There’s nothing “wrong” with being gay, bisexual, straight, pansexual, asexual, queer, genderqueer, etc. You are who you are.

    2. Who the fuck cares? If you wanna dress up like the Maytag Man and suck off nine dudes wearing nothing but ‘80s Chicago White Sox jerseys while an amputee flogs your balls with a shinai, you do you!

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  • Clunk42
    4 years ago

    Not gay.

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    • Seriouslythough
      4 years ago

      I agree.

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  • TruthandReality
    3 years ago

    The thing your talking about is normal bc our flesh acts up st times and can have us think about very either horrible or sick or crazy things. Does that mean that just bc our flesh feels a certain way that it means that we should dictate our lives according to our flesh? No. Do not allow your flesh to make your decisions for you. Your mind is not the same as your flesh but can be Influenced by it. Flesh can be programmed into likeing something pleasurable wether it be drugs or a type of sexual fetish, Flesh is something to be taken control of or you can damage yourself and in this Society people will think its normal. Take it from me, ive been through this. Ive had real Experience with this type of thing and im telling you based on what I've learned not only from core Principals involving Gods law but also the fact that i know how our Flesh acts. Dont trust it. You are not gay.

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  • Resurgam53
    4 years ago

    Nothing wrong with being gay or bi! Just be yourself and enjoy!

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  • Firsttaste
    4 years ago

    Stop Asking questions you already know the answer to.There is Nothing wrong with you and your Fantasy, Just be honest with yourself and you will find it very enjoyable. Stop trying to be someone you really don't want to be.

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  • einexile
    4 years ago

    If you don't fantasize about any other women ever, you might have a problem. Otherwise no. A woman is a woman whether she's butch with a strap-on or Mia Sara doing the backstroke on a cloud. Enjoy it while it lasts.

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  • momwatcher69
    4 years ago

    Assuming you're a male......Fantasizing about sucking a cock, or getting 'pegged', doesn't make you 'gay'.
    HAVING sex, with ONLY men, IS gay.

    Since you have an on-again / off-again girlfriend, and she's NOT on the 'same page' as you.... be careful.

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  • chuy
    4 years ago

    Is not gay and it's not normal either it's borderline normal...having wierd sexual thoughts is totally fine and somewhat normal just don't try to carry them out. It might get you in deep troubles.

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  • leggs91200
    4 years ago

    Gay as Richard Simmons in a Cher costume.

    Richard is this guy.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=na9ZZ4ZjVa8

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  • Jimbo24
    4 years ago

    I'd say it's pretty gay. Hey, if you're gay you're gay. Gayness is only wrong if you're straight. But if you're a homo, well, then you're gonna homo. So what you have to do is figure out whether you're gay or not. If you like that dick, butchness, and your manager, then you're a fairy.

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  • SmokeEverything
    4 years ago

    You should probably schedule some time in your day for this to happen. work will probably be way more interesting.

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  • LloydAsher
    4 years ago

    Butch lesbian? So I'm assuming a very masculine female that just so happens to have a strap on. If you are a female you are mostly straight. If you are a male sucking another man's dick you are gay.

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