Well people are complexe and to give you a better answer I would need to get to know you better :)
From the examples you gave me it seems you enjoy contradictory things. It is amusing for you. Some people just might not get the joke. I think things like in your examples should be avoided until you really get to know someone longer. And you can slowly introduce yourself to them. .. that way they know you are in fact joking and not trying to be insulting.
I upset people too with my blunt honesty... so I tend to make a friend then tell them not to take it personally that im blunt and generally blurt things out... im the friend that if you walk out and say how do I look? Ill give you my honest answer lol... never cruel tho.
but ill at least never let you walk out looking like a hot mess.
I have a friend who says she really appreciates this since she had people lie to her and let her walk around looking a mess.
So maybe after making the friend ease them into your personality and let them know.
Am I doing something wrong?
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Well people are complexe and to give you a better answer I would need to get to know you better :)
From the examples you gave me it seems you enjoy contradictory things. It is amusing for you. Some people just might not get the joke. I think things like in your examples should be avoided until you really get to know someone longer. And you can slowly introduce yourself to them. .. that way they know you are in fact joking and not trying to be insulting.
I upset people too with my blunt honesty... so I tend to make a friend then tell them not to take it personally that im blunt and generally blurt things out... im the friend that if you walk out and say how do I look? Ill give you my honest answer lol... never cruel tho.
but ill at least never let you walk out looking like a hot mess.
I have a friend who says she really appreciates this since she had people lie to her and let her walk around looking a mess.
So maybe after making the friend ease them into your personality and let them know.
I hope this was at least somewhat helpful