Your best chance of understanding why they rejected you is.... to ASK THEM!
Do it in a straightforward, polite way, explaining that you're having trouble with your love life and it would help to get an honest insight into why you put people off.
And you have said previously that you have Aspergers/Autism? This may well be an obstacle in your interactions with people. Those on the Autistic spectrum can seem socially awkward, rude, emotionally detached etc. They might not be as able to 'read' people's emotions, get people's jokes, recognise when a conversation is no longer entertaining or appropriate etc. That could be a contributing factor.
I do ask which is where I came up with my possible explanations, but often it seems people are afraid of saying what they really think. Sometimes they do give advice, but more often they seem to go around certain topics.
I am sure Asperger's is why I have this problem and all the traits you mentioned are fitting of my issue with this, but knowing I do those things is only half the challenge.
I can tell my sensory perceptions and way I process thoughts and emotions is different from how other people describe, but how I am is normal to me.
Am I doing something wrong?
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Your best chance of understanding why they rejected you is.... to ASK THEM!
Do it in a straightforward, polite way, explaining that you're having trouble with your love life and it would help to get an honest insight into why you put people off.
And you have said previously that you have Aspergers/Autism? This may well be an obstacle in your interactions with people. Those on the Autistic spectrum can seem socially awkward, rude, emotionally detached etc. They might not be as able to 'read' people's emotions, get people's jokes, recognise when a conversation is no longer entertaining or appropriate etc. That could be a contributing factor.
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I do ask which is where I came up with my possible explanations, but often it seems people are afraid of saying what they really think. Sometimes they do give advice, but more often they seem to go around certain topics.
I am sure Asperger's is why I have this problem and all the traits you mentioned are fitting of my issue with this, but knowing I do those things is only half the challenge.
I can tell my sensory perceptions and way I process thoughts and emotions is different from how other people describe, but how I am is normal to me.