One more thing, yes I think you're normal. I've never catagorized myself as anything, and I wouldn't say I'm the exact same as you, but I'm similar. I do feel sexual, but I don't look at guys and want to do them. My friends play that game, but I never have. If I find a guy with an amazing personality, I get to know him. If I like what I'm learning, I then feel the urge to be with him. I don't go by looks, like you, I find everyone beautiful in their own way. I go by personality. Not everyone wants to just sleep with someone. I read your whole post, but I think the underlying message in there is that you feel different because you don't want to sleep with random girls. Everything else is you just being picky on her personality. Different forms of fantasy are normal, that's just how your mind chooses to fantasize. I bet if you did meet that perfect someone, they would be who you're thinking of. I just don't think you've found them yet. Once again! Soorryyyyy for the long post. I'm hoping it's insughtful though, I think you and I are probably the same
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One more thing, yes I think you're normal. I've never catagorized myself as anything, and I wouldn't say I'm the exact same as you, but I'm similar. I do feel sexual, but I don't look at guys and want to do them. My friends play that game, but I never have. If I find a guy with an amazing personality, I get to know him. If I like what I'm learning, I then feel the urge to be with him. I don't go by looks, like you, I find everyone beautiful in their own way. I go by personality. Not everyone wants to just sleep with someone. I read your whole post, but I think the underlying message in there is that you feel different because you don't want to sleep with random girls. Everything else is you just being picky on her personality. Different forms of fantasy are normal, that's just how your mind chooses to fantasize. I bet if you did meet that perfect someone, they would be who you're thinking of. I just don't think you've found them yet. Once again! Soorryyyyy for the long post. I'm hoping it's insughtful though, I think you and I are probably the same