Well, if you really need a catagory, I'd say Demi-sexual. It's my guess that if a woman walked up to you, and you found yourself interested, but later found out she was a total bitch, you'd be over her in a snap. I think you're the type that actually needs to know somebody before you say you'd "do them." If they were listing biographies you'd likely have a better at choosing who you would choose, because you know who you'd connect with better. "Betty over there is really sweet, she's funny, and easy to get along with. She never pushes to far and loves to make people happy." "Sue. Sue is a whore." "Janette has a rough attitude on the outside, but she has a real soft side too." Not gonna lie, some guys would choose Sue in a heart beat. You sound more like a Betty or Janette kind of guy lol This doesn't mean you'd sleep with any of them, but you might find a girl more interesting and want to get to know her. What's required for demi-sexuality is an emotional connection. And since from your post I can tell you haven't had something like that just yet, that left you confuzed and catagoryless lol Hope you find someone that matches up with you on an emotional level.
That was a lot to read, sorry :P It's also hypothetical since I don't know you. But if any of that sounds like you, then there yah go! Demi-Sexual.
Wiki exerpt: person who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone.
One more thing, yes I think you're normal. I've never catagorized myself as anything, and I wouldn't say I'm the exact same as you, but I'm similar. I do feel sexual, but I don't look at guys and want to do them. My friends play that game, but I never have. If I find a guy with an amazing personality, I get to know him. If I like what I'm learning, I then feel the urge to be with him. I don't go by looks, like you, I find everyone beautiful in their own way. I go by personality. Not everyone wants to just sleep with someone. I read your whole post, but I think the underlying message in there is that you feel different because you don't want to sleep with random girls. Everything else is you just being picky on her personality. Different forms of fantasy are normal, that's just how your mind chooses to fantasize. I bet if you did meet that perfect someone, they would be who you're thinking of. I just don't think you've found them yet. Once again! Soorryyyyy for the long post. I'm hoping it's insughtful though, I think you and I are probably the same
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Well, if you really need a catagory, I'd say Demi-sexual. It's my guess that if a woman walked up to you, and you found yourself interested, but later found out she was a total bitch, you'd be over her in a snap. I think you're the type that actually needs to know somebody before you say you'd "do them." If they were listing biographies you'd likely have a better at choosing who you would choose, because you know who you'd connect with better. "Betty over there is really sweet, she's funny, and easy to get along with. She never pushes to far and loves to make people happy." "Sue. Sue is a whore." "Janette has a rough attitude on the outside, but she has a real soft side too." Not gonna lie, some guys would choose Sue in a heart beat. You sound more like a Betty or Janette kind of guy lol This doesn't mean you'd sleep with any of them, but you might find a girl more interesting and want to get to know her. What's required for demi-sexuality is an emotional connection. And since from your post I can tell you haven't had something like that just yet, that left you confuzed and catagoryless lol Hope you find someone that matches up with you on an emotional level.
That was a lot to read, sorry :P It's also hypothetical since I don't know you. But if any of that sounds like you, then there yah go! Demi-Sexual.
Wiki exerpt: person who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone.
There's a lot more to it. Google it some time :)
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One more thing, yes I think you're normal. I've never catagorized myself as anything, and I wouldn't say I'm the exact same as you, but I'm similar. I do feel sexual, but I don't look at guys and want to do them. My friends play that game, but I never have. If I find a guy with an amazing personality, I get to know him. If I like what I'm learning, I then feel the urge to be with him. I don't go by looks, like you, I find everyone beautiful in their own way. I go by personality. Not everyone wants to just sleep with someone. I read your whole post, but I think the underlying message in there is that you feel different because you don't want to sleep with random girls. Everything else is you just being picky on her personality. Different forms of fantasy are normal, that's just how your mind chooses to fantasize. I bet if you did meet that perfect someone, they would be who you're thinking of. I just don't think you've found them yet. Once again! Soorryyyyy for the long post. I'm hoping it's insughtful though, I think you and I are probably the same