It's about sex and control. Yes, they are trying to trick you in to having sex with them by also trying to make you give them complete control over you.
Back away from them. Tell them they're not interested. Block contact. If it gets worse, seek legal help. Document the conversations too. Just incase.
The control thing is not the issue. That is kind of how it goes in S&M. The thing is I told them I am not into the life style anymore and I want to straighten out my life before I start considering any type of relationship like this. So they suggested the "Servant" thing. So I am wondering if they are trying to manipulate me. I told them I am not interested multiple times in being their pet and I dont want a Master right now.
Yeah but with S&M it's about controlled submissiveness if by S&M you mean BDSM. You give up your controll but you're still in controll to end the person having control over you. That doesn't sound like what you explained at all in your post.
The part of them not accepting your refusal is what makes it seperate from S&M in the acceptable sense, much like how BDSM is BDSM until the control the sub has is completely taken and the safeword is disregarded, making it rape.
Am I being tricked into giving sex?
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It's about sex and control. Yes, they are trying to trick you in to having sex with them by also trying to make you give them complete control over you.
Back away from them. Tell them they're not interested. Block contact. If it gets worse, seek legal help. Document the conversations too. Just incase.
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The control thing is not the issue. That is kind of how it goes in S&M. The thing is I told them I am not into the life style anymore and I want to straighten out my life before I start considering any type of relationship like this. So they suggested the "Servant" thing. So I am wondering if they are trying to manipulate me. I told them I am not interested multiple times in being their pet and I dont want a Master right now.
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Of course they're trying yo manipulate you. Do as ItDuz says, and all should be well.
Yeah but with S&M it's about controlled submissiveness if by S&M you mean BDSM. You give up your controll but you're still in controll to end the person having control over you. That doesn't sound like what you explained at all in your post.
The part of them not accepting your refusal is what makes it seperate from S&M in the acceptable sense, much like how BDSM is BDSM until the control the sub has is completely taken and the safeword is disregarded, making it rape.
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I decided to cut communications with this person. Thank you for the advice.
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Glad to help. :)