My opinion isn't based on these two dates, though. I'm basing it on this: "after doing this so many times I keep wondering to myself if I'm just looking for reasons to reject these women". Firstly, that's proof it's happened a lot more than twice. Secondly, in that quote the OP wonders himself if he is commitment-phobic (albeit using different words to say so).
Never? There are often stories posted by women who are uncomfortable with their partner masturbating or looking at porn, and I often comment to tell them they are wrong. When there are stories posted by a woman who has cheated and wants forgiveness, I often comment to tell them they are wrong. When it comes to individuals, I often comment to call out female trolls targeting male members of the community. I can only assume you have an extremely selective memory.
Approaching someone isn't picking a fight. Being combative and irrelevant is picking a fight. I am not combative when I approach you on IIN, and I only approach you about gender when there is already a discussion about gender in the thread or the thread itself is about gender. You are combative even on your approach, and this isn't the first time you've approached me when it isn't relevant.
I've been on the other side too though, where there's women who I really like and want to spend more time with but end up getting turned down. I'm not always the one doing the rejecting.
Am I being too picky?
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My opinion isn't based on these two dates, though. I'm basing it on this: "after doing this so many times I keep wondering to myself if I'm just looking for reasons to reject these women". Firstly, that's proof it's happened a lot more than twice. Secondly, in that quote the OP wonders himself if he is commitment-phobic (albeit using different words to say so).
Never? There are often stories posted by women who are uncomfortable with their partner masturbating or looking at porn, and I often comment to tell them they are wrong. When there are stories posted by a woman who has cheated and wants forgiveness, I often comment to tell them they are wrong. When it comes to individuals, I often comment to call out female trolls targeting male members of the community. I can only assume you have an extremely selective memory.
Approaching someone isn't picking a fight. Being combative and irrelevant is picking a fight. I am not combative when I approach you on IIN, and I only approach you about gender when there is already a discussion about gender in the thread or the thread itself is about gender. You are combative even on your approach, and this isn't the first time you've approached me when it isn't relevant.
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I've been on the other side too though, where there's women who I really like and want to spend more time with but end up getting turned down. I'm not always the one doing the rejecting.