Am i being too demanding?

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I've been married for 10 yrs, after both of us had failed marriages and had sworn off marriage lol we became best friends and married 2 yrs later. I love my husband, he's my best friend, partner, soul mate and wonderful provider; however; 2 yrs ago he became involved in an online game, he chats it up with the other players, I often have to repeat anything I say to him several times and it's been nearly 2 months since I've been able to have a convo no with his undivided attention much less anything else. Going back a few months, a woman who he frequently chatted with made contact w me via FB going into detail of how she had to be the one arouse my husband in order for him to be intimate w me and the many other intimate things they talked about. I confronted him, also did some investigation (went thru his PM and found convo btwn the 2 of them but nothing she discribed) and he agreed to give up the game but since January he's back at it and I'm on the back burner. I just don't know what to do, if I approach him w it he says I'm too needy, or in being ridiculous, that he could be out doing worse but instead he's home. He's home but I'm still alone, I need affection, conversation and human contact.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    Why are you still with this person?

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    I don't know if you're asking if his behavior or your response is normal or not, so I haven't voted, but you're not being too needy, he sounds addicted, as well as dishonest and disrespectful of you.

    I'm sorry, but I don't know what you can do about this if he's denying there's any problem.

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  • Angelandme
    7 years ago

    I bet if you put him in a room by himself there'd be no problem. Now we just add you in there to nag at him and now there's a problem. I especially dislike this idea that just because you step in the room or try to engage with your significant other they automatically have to , at the drop of a dime, engage with you. It's my preferance. I'm not hating on you woman. But if that's the way you are sheesh. Where do women learn to behave like this? My woman understands this concept, she just came that way too I had nothing to do with it.

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  • Diego35LovesHilda29
    7 years ago

    Dump him.

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    • Takuto
      6 years ago

      *Divorce

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  • [Old Memory]
    7 years ago

    Decide wether you want to be with him with this game being a priority (after everything else you were saying I'd have chucked him as soon as he started it up again) if you don't,maybe suggest set nights that he doesn't go on the game,"date night" even if it starts at once a week.on that night organise something fun for you to do,wether it be a funfair,ice skating dancing, or at home playing twister with shots or even hide and seek in the dark(may sound stupid but trust me it gets your heart pumping if you open up to it) remind him you are more fun then a stupid game. Another idea,invite another couple round for dinner,preferably someone he gets on with.again play a game, google double date nights in for ideas. Everyone is allowed some alone time to do whatever they want to do,but also a marriage will break if you don't feel loved or wanted,it's all about getting the balance right

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