It’s not forced sex. When we married I gave myself to him and promised to obey him.
Think of it like a pupil in school, lets say their next lesson is Maths, they hate Maths and don’t want to go to the lesson, but if they don’t go they will be punished. We don’t consider that to be some sort of abuse, they were punished because they were disobedient. It’s the same thing, if my husband wants me to have sex with him or have an orgasm or whatever then I should obey him in line with my marriage vows. That’s the rules, if I break the rules I should quite rightly expect to be punished. In my case punishment is a good spanking on my bare bottom, once upon a time that sort of punishment was the same in schools, but these days it’s sadly not allowed so teachers have to find other ways but the principal is still the same.
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It’s not forced sex. When we married I gave myself to him and promised to obey him.
Think of it like a pupil in school, lets say their next lesson is Maths, they hate Maths and don’t want to go to the lesson, but if they don’t go they will be punished. We don’t consider that to be some sort of abuse, they were punished because they were disobedient. It’s the same thing, if my husband wants me to have sex with him or have an orgasm or whatever then I should obey him in line with my marriage vows. That’s the rules, if I break the rules I should quite rightly expect to be punished. In my case punishment is a good spanking on my bare bottom, once upon a time that sort of punishment was the same in schools, but these days it’s sadly not allowed so teachers have to find other ways but the principal is still the same.