I wrote this post because it was playing on my mind that my behaviour is unreasonable. I didn’t actually think anyone would opt for further limiting his lovemaking, I’m not even sure why I put that option on my pole.
The thing is lately he has wanted to make love to me during the week. It’s my fault for teasing him I know that, it started one morning, he gave me my orgasm but he had a day off work and said he would like to make love to me. I told him no he would have to wait until Friday evening as usual, he started pleading with me, it was only Tuesday and I did feel a bit mean. That night I asked him for a massage he obliged and finished by giving me oral. I told him if he was good I might let him screw me afterwards. He gave me a beautiful orgasm and then I started playing with him and teasing him. He really thought he was going to get lucky but after about half an hour of teasing and denying him I told him I thought we should wait for the weekend like normal. He pleaded with me not to be so mean and this really turned me on knowing I had so much power over him. I told him I needed him to make me cum again before I made up my mind. I never at any point had any intention of letting him have sex that night, he gave me another orgasm as requested, then I just thanked him and said I was going to sleep. I’ve teased him again like this on a few occasions now and he always pleads with me but I always say no. It’s like the more he’s denied the more it turns me on, especially when he starts begging for it.
I do feel like I’m being a bitch, but I still have no intention of having sex with him during the week. I have actually told him that, and he says he is fine with how things were but it’s hard for him when I tease him. But since I started doing it I’ve found I enjoy teasing him.
You have NPD and will be toxic to people around you, your husband will feel less and less like a human because of your defect and you are too disturbed to stop it. Think of yourself as leukemia for the soul.
When you start having paranoid thoughts that people are after you it's you starting to understand you are poison to them. your kids will eventually make plans on your life, but completing their goal will not entirely cure them from your poison.
There is one thing you could do with yourself in order for your family to thrive, but you are too weak, anxious and self-absorbed to eradicate the toxic from their life.
You are just awesome :) making you orgasm in the morging, giving you massages and oral, and getting teased and denied in return. He is soo lucky.
I would love that 7 days a week!
And its not your fault that he wants sex just because you tease him. I love to be teased and denied, it makes me just more eager to make her orgasm.
Hmm making you orgasm, getting teased for half an hour, make you orgasm again, and finally be denied cumming. Thats heaven 😍
You are deffinatly mean and jnfair, is a super hot way! But you are no bitch at all. You are awesome! I would give up cumming forever just to make you orgasm several times a day. And getting teased, denied and blue balled inbreturn would be so hot.
You should try to limit his sex time to once every 2 weekends. Then once a month :) i mean, its weekend, why waste time with sex, if he could make you orgasm all weekend long!
And i think you added that option to limit his lovemaking, because you somehow really want to limit it even more :D
I just think that the female orgasm is sooo hot and better then the male orgasm. You need no preparation, you can just start fingering or licking, and a woman can orgasm soo much. When you make a man cum, you always need to take care of that mess, you need to aim somewhere, you need to clean everything. Male orgasms are annoying.
I once had a relationship, where she mever made me cum, she never even saw my cum dt all, but i made her orgasm all day lomg (our record was 15 orgasms a day). As reward, she teased me, until i couldnt take it anymore and ate her pussy to another orgasm. It was the best sex of my life! And after some month without cumming, i even started to dream of making her orgasm.
Hm maybe you are right, the chances are bad. But it would just be so cool :)
Thats how my firdt girlfriend did it, i made her orgasm daily, but she only made me cum sometimes. After a while, she extended the times between my cumming. 4 days, 1 week, 2 weeks. I hated it! BUT after some month, i somehow grew a fetish for it, her orgasms tasted sooo much better after 2 weeks of denial! Being denied for longer made it all easier for me and enjoy it a lot more.
Ok so poor hubby is in the shower now having just given me 2 beautiful orgasms.
When we woke up this morning I told him I wanted an extra Christmas present. I told him his gift to me should be giving me multiple orgasms between now and New Year and not expecting sex in return. He was totally not prepared to go for that, but then I spent about half hour guilt tripping him into agreeing.
I am one happy lady, thank you for your input on my post. X
Basically you are a very bad influence on me! Hubby cooked Christmas dinner, there is only the 2 of us here because of Covid lockdown, so after dinner I asked him to clear up then take me to bed. The silly man thought I had changed my mind and was going to have sex with him. I soon put him straight, instead I had him worshiping my body with delightful massaging and then licking me to orgasm. When he had done satisfying me I sent him to make a cup of tea, then after that I got him to do it all over again. I told him he has made me feel wonderful and we should do this regularly on a Friday night and all day Saturday and just save Sunday for him to make love to me.
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I wrote this post because it was playing on my mind that my behaviour is unreasonable. I didn’t actually think anyone would opt for further limiting his lovemaking, I’m not even sure why I put that option on my pole.
The thing is lately he has wanted to make love to me during the week. It’s my fault for teasing him I know that, it started one morning, he gave me my orgasm but he had a day off work and said he would like to make love to me. I told him no he would have to wait until Friday evening as usual, he started pleading with me, it was only Tuesday and I did feel a bit mean. That night I asked him for a massage he obliged and finished by giving me oral. I told him if he was good I might let him screw me afterwards. He gave me a beautiful orgasm and then I started playing with him and teasing him. He really thought he was going to get lucky but after about half an hour of teasing and denying him I told him I thought we should wait for the weekend like normal. He pleaded with me not to be so mean and this really turned me on knowing I had so much power over him. I told him I needed him to make me cum again before I made up my mind. I never at any point had any intention of letting him have sex that night, he gave me another orgasm as requested, then I just thanked him and said I was going to sleep. I’ve teased him again like this on a few occasions now and he always pleads with me but I always say no. It’s like the more he’s denied the more it turns me on, especially when he starts begging for it.
I do feel like I’m being a bitch, but I still have no intention of having sex with him during the week. I have actually told him that, and he says he is fine with how things were but it’s hard for him when I tease him. But since I started doing it I’ve found I enjoy teasing him.
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You have NPD and will be toxic to people around you, your husband will feel less and less like a human because of your defect and you are too disturbed to stop it. Think of yourself as leukemia for the soul.
When you start having paranoid thoughts that people are after you it's you starting to understand you are poison to them. your kids will eventually make plans on your life, but completing their goal will not entirely cure them from your poison.
There is one thing you could do with yourself in order for your family to thrive, but you are too weak, anxious and self-absorbed to eradicate the toxic from their life.
You are just awesome :) making you orgasm in the morging, giving you massages and oral, and getting teased and denied in return. He is soo lucky.
I would love that 7 days a week!
And its not your fault that he wants sex just because you tease him. I love to be teased and denied, it makes me just more eager to make her orgasm.
Hmm making you orgasm, getting teased for half an hour, make you orgasm again, and finally be denied cumming. Thats heaven 😍
You are deffinatly mean and jnfair, is a super hot way! But you are no bitch at all. You are awesome! I would give up cumming forever just to make you orgasm several times a day. And getting teased, denied and blue balled inbreturn would be so hot.
You should try to limit his sex time to once every 2 weekends. Then once a month :) i mean, its weekend, why waste time with sex, if he could make you orgasm all weekend long!
And i think you added that option to limit his lovemaking, because you somehow really want to limit it even more :D
I just think that the female orgasm is sooo hot and better then the male orgasm. You need no preparation, you can just start fingering or licking, and a woman can orgasm soo much. When you make a man cum, you always need to take care of that mess, you need to aim somewhere, you need to clean everything. Male orgasms are annoying.
I once had a relationship, where she mever made me cum, she never even saw my cum dt all, but i made her orgasm all day lomg (our record was 15 orgasms a day). As reward, she teased me, until i couldnt take it anymore and ate her pussy to another orgasm. It was the best sex of my life! And after some month without cumming, i even started to dream of making her orgasm.
I bet you would enjoy that, too!
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Hmmm I’m not convinced he would go for that. I might talk to him about it and get his views, but I think it will be a very short conversation.
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Hm maybe you are right, the chances are bad. But it would just be so cool :)
Thats how my firdt girlfriend did it, i made her orgasm daily, but she only made me cum sometimes. After a while, she extended the times between my cumming. 4 days, 1 week, 2 weeks. I hated it! BUT after some month, i somehow grew a fetish for it, her orgasms tasted sooo much better after 2 weeks of denial! Being denied for longer made it all easier for me and enjoy it a lot more.
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Ok so poor hubby is in the shower now having just given me 2 beautiful orgasms.
When we woke up this morning I told him I wanted an extra Christmas present. I told him his gift to me should be giving me multiple orgasms between now and New Year and not expecting sex in return. He was totally not prepared to go for that, but then I spent about half hour guilt tripping him into agreeing.
I am one happy lady, thank you for your input on my post. X
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Wow now thats a great present! He is not a poor hubby, i am totally jealous :D
So this weekend is going to be only for you and you can just relax and orgasm! I am sure he is going to love it, too.
Please keep us updated if it worked out :) and thank you for trying to limit his lovemaking, i really think you deserve more orgasms!
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A quick update for you as you asked so nicely.
Basically you are a very bad influence on me! Hubby cooked Christmas dinner, there is only the 2 of us here because of Covid lockdown, so after dinner I asked him to clear up then take me to bed. The silly man thought I had changed my mind and was going to have sex with him. I soon put him straight, instead I had him worshiping my body with delightful massaging and then licking me to orgasm. When he had done satisfying me I sent him to make a cup of tea, then after that I got him to do it all over again. I told him he has made me feel wonderful and we should do this regularly on a Friday night and all day Saturday and just save Sunday for him to make love to me.