Its no punishment at all! By limiting his lovemaking, you make more room for your orgasms. And he loves your orgasms, too. So you both benefit from it!
You dont like him cumming in you? Do you like to make him cum at all?
Not particularly it’s all so messy, but obviously I can’t just stop him from cumming. His sex drive is definitely lower than mine but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t want to have sex with me at all. Are you suggesting I should limit it more than I already do?
I didn’t set out with it in mind to make him have less sex than me, I just love having an orgasm when I wake up but there just isn’t time for the whole ‘lets make love thing’. Then in the evenings I’m tired and it is nice just to ask him to massage me all over, the trouble is as soon as his hands go near my nipples I get turned on so then I start moaning and the next thing I’m asking him to start fingering me and before I know it I’m having an orgasm. That’s how this all started and things have just evolved from there.
I had several female-orgasm only relationships. No cumming for me, no penetration sex. And i have a big sexdrive! But making them orgasm was sooo statisfying to me. I totally didnt feel like giving up anything. And it was sooo hard to find women who didnt wanted to make me cum and had the talent to only want to orgasm themself.
Its just sooo hot to finger and lick a woman to orgasm daily.
Are your orgasms at the weekend as good as the orgasms on the other days, or is the weekend just for him?
To be honest, i would love to see you get ALL the orgasms haha
I wrote this post because it was playing on my mind that my behaviour is unreasonable. I didn’t actually think anyone would opt for further limiting his lovemaking, I’m not even sure why I put that option on my pole.
The thing is lately he has wanted to make love to me during the week. It’s my fault for teasing him I know that, it started one morning, he gave me my orgasm but he had a day off work and said he would like to make love to me. I told him no he would have to wait until Friday evening as usual, he started pleading with me, it was only Tuesday and I did feel a bit mean. That night I asked him for a massage he obliged and finished by giving me oral. I told him if he was good I might let him screw me afterwards. He gave me a beautiful orgasm and then I started playing with him and teasing him. He really thought he was going to get lucky but after about half an hour of teasing and denying him I told him I thought we should wait for the weekend like normal. He pleaded with me not to be so mean and this really turned me on knowing I had so much power over him. I told him I needed him to make me cum again before I made up my mind. I never at any point had any intention of letting him have sex that night, he gave me another orgasm as requested, then I just thanked him and said I was going to sleep. I’ve teased him again like this on a few occasions now and he always pleads with me but I always say no. It’s like the more he’s denied the more it turns me on, especially when he starts begging for it.
I do feel like I’m being a bitch, but I still have no intention of having sex with him during the week. I have actually told him that, and he says he is fine with how things were but it’s hard for him when I tease him. But since I started doing it I’ve found I enjoy teasing him.
You have NPD and will be toxic to people around you, your husband will feel less and less like a human because of your defect and you are too disturbed to stop it. Think of yourself as leukemia for the soul.
When you start having paranoid thoughts that people are after you it's you starting to understand you are poison to them. your kids will eventually make plans on your life, but completing their goal will not entirely cure them from your poison.
There is one thing you could do with yourself in order for your family to thrive, but you are too weak, anxious and self-absorbed to eradicate the toxic from their life.
You are just awesome :) making you orgasm in the morging, giving you massages and oral, and getting teased and denied in return. He is soo lucky.
I would love that 7 days a week!
And its not your fault that he wants sex just because you tease him. I love to be teased and denied, it makes me just more eager to make her orgasm.
Hmm making you orgasm, getting teased for half an hour, make you orgasm again, and finally be denied cumming. Thats heaven 😍
You are deffinatly mean and jnfair, is a super hot way! But you are no bitch at all. You are awesome! I would give up cumming forever just to make you orgasm several times a day. And getting teased, denied and blue balled inbreturn would be so hot.
You should try to limit his sex time to once every 2 weekends. Then once a month :) i mean, its weekend, why waste time with sex, if he could make you orgasm all weekend long!
And i think you added that option to limit his lovemaking, because you somehow really want to limit it even more :D
I just think that the female orgasm is sooo hot and better then the male orgasm. You need no preparation, you can just start fingering or licking, and a woman can orgasm soo much. When you make a man cum, you always need to take care of that mess, you need to aim somewhere, you need to clean everything. Male orgasms are annoying.
I once had a relationship, where she mever made me cum, she never even saw my cum dt all, but i made her orgasm all day lomg (our record was 15 orgasms a day). As reward, she teased me, until i couldnt take it anymore and ate her pussy to another orgasm. It was the best sex of my life! And after some month without cumming, i even started to dream of making her orgasm.
Hm maybe you are right, the chances are bad. But it would just be so cool :)
Thats how my firdt girlfriend did it, i made her orgasm daily, but she only made me cum sometimes. After a while, she extended the times between my cumming. 4 days, 1 week, 2 weeks. I hated it! BUT after some month, i somehow grew a fetish for it, her orgasms tasted sooo much better after 2 weeks of denial! Being denied for longer made it all easier for me and enjoy it a lot more.
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Its no punishment at all! By limiting his lovemaking, you make more room for your orgasms. And he loves your orgasms, too. So you both benefit from it!
You dont like him cumming in you? Do you like to make him cum at all?
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Not particularly it’s all so messy, but obviously I can’t just stop him from cumming. His sex drive is definitely lower than mine but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t want to have sex with me at all. Are you suggesting I should limit it more than I already do?
I didn’t set out with it in mind to make him have less sex than me, I just love having an orgasm when I wake up but there just isn’t time for the whole ‘lets make love thing’. Then in the evenings I’m tired and it is nice just to ask him to massage me all over, the trouble is as soon as his hands go near my nipples I get turned on so then I start moaning and the next thing I’m asking him to start fingering me and before I know it I’m having an orgasm. That’s how this all started and things have just evolved from there.
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I had several female-orgasm only relationships. No cumming for me, no penetration sex. And i have a big sexdrive! But making them orgasm was sooo statisfying to me. I totally didnt feel like giving up anything. And it was sooo hard to find women who didnt wanted to make me cum and had the talent to only want to orgasm themself.
Its just sooo hot to finger and lick a woman to orgasm daily.
Are your orgasms at the weekend as good as the orgasms on the other days, or is the weekend just for him?
To be honest, i would love to see you get ALL the orgasms haha
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I wrote this post because it was playing on my mind that my behaviour is unreasonable. I didn’t actually think anyone would opt for further limiting his lovemaking, I’m not even sure why I put that option on my pole.
The thing is lately he has wanted to make love to me during the week. It’s my fault for teasing him I know that, it started one morning, he gave me my orgasm but he had a day off work and said he would like to make love to me. I told him no he would have to wait until Friday evening as usual, he started pleading with me, it was only Tuesday and I did feel a bit mean. That night I asked him for a massage he obliged and finished by giving me oral. I told him if he was good I might let him screw me afterwards. He gave me a beautiful orgasm and then I started playing with him and teasing him. He really thought he was going to get lucky but after about half an hour of teasing and denying him I told him I thought we should wait for the weekend like normal. He pleaded with me not to be so mean and this really turned me on knowing I had so much power over him. I told him I needed him to make me cum again before I made up my mind. I never at any point had any intention of letting him have sex that night, he gave me another orgasm as requested, then I just thanked him and said I was going to sleep. I’ve teased him again like this on a few occasions now and he always pleads with me but I always say no. It’s like the more he’s denied the more it turns me on, especially when he starts begging for it.
I do feel like I’m being a bitch, but I still have no intention of having sex with him during the week. I have actually told him that, and he says he is fine with how things were but it’s hard for him when I tease him. But since I started doing it I’ve found I enjoy teasing him.
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You have NPD and will be toxic to people around you, your husband will feel less and less like a human because of your defect and you are too disturbed to stop it. Think of yourself as leukemia for the soul.
When you start having paranoid thoughts that people are after you it's you starting to understand you are poison to them. your kids will eventually make plans on your life, but completing their goal will not entirely cure them from your poison.
There is one thing you could do with yourself in order for your family to thrive, but you are too weak, anxious and self-absorbed to eradicate the toxic from their life.
You are just awesome :) making you orgasm in the morging, giving you massages and oral, and getting teased and denied in return. He is soo lucky.
I would love that 7 days a week!
And its not your fault that he wants sex just because you tease him. I love to be teased and denied, it makes me just more eager to make her orgasm.
Hmm making you orgasm, getting teased for half an hour, make you orgasm again, and finally be denied cumming. Thats heaven 😍
You are deffinatly mean and jnfair, is a super hot way! But you are no bitch at all. You are awesome! I would give up cumming forever just to make you orgasm several times a day. And getting teased, denied and blue balled inbreturn would be so hot.
You should try to limit his sex time to once every 2 weekends. Then once a month :) i mean, its weekend, why waste time with sex, if he could make you orgasm all weekend long!
And i think you added that option to limit his lovemaking, because you somehow really want to limit it even more :D
I just think that the female orgasm is sooo hot and better then the male orgasm. You need no preparation, you can just start fingering or licking, and a woman can orgasm soo much. When you make a man cum, you always need to take care of that mess, you need to aim somewhere, you need to clean everything. Male orgasms are annoying.
I once had a relationship, where she mever made me cum, she never even saw my cum dt all, but i made her orgasm all day lomg (our record was 15 orgasms a day). As reward, she teased me, until i couldnt take it anymore and ate her pussy to another orgasm. It was the best sex of my life! And after some month without cumming, i even started to dream of making her orgasm.
I bet you would enjoy that, too!
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Hmmm I’m not convinced he would go for that. I might talk to him about it and get his views, but I think it will be a very short conversation.
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Hm maybe you are right, the chances are bad. But it would just be so cool :)
Thats how my firdt girlfriend did it, i made her orgasm daily, but she only made me cum sometimes. After a while, she extended the times between my cumming. 4 days, 1 week, 2 weeks. I hated it! BUT after some month, i somehow grew a fetish for it, her orgasms tasted sooo much better after 2 weeks of denial! Being denied for longer made it all easier for me and enjoy it a lot more.