You say she's not giving back in any way. Do you really mean this? Is she not giving you the romantic and emotional side of the relationship? Maybe the reason why you got laid so much after those presents was because she felt appreciated and cared for and so it made her happier and more in the mood, not because she was totally prostituting herself, as such, but she still was really.
Anyway, you guys got into a fucked up confusing arrangement...you have no right to demand sex from anyone. Maybe it was kinky for you both at first, I can see that. Do you really want to be with this girl? Have you got something special with her that you can't get/don't want from anyone else? If yes, then talk things over, if no, then leave her.
Tbh I never thought of it like that. That may be the way she saw it which is fair. We used to do a lot of things out of the bedroom too at first and she was very affectionate then. I can't really place a finger on when it all changed but it'd be wrong to blame it all on her. I myself never really put any effort into finding out why she was now reluctant of our past non sexual activities.
I can't really name anything off the top of my head that nobody else can't give me that she did but I'm terribly fond of her. In actuality replacing her never crossed my mind until I went through these comments.
Can't say I've actually outright demanded sex though. Not in the conventional sense. All I did was withdraw my cards from the table and let her make a move.
Am I being an ass, or is she?
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You say she's not giving back in any way. Do you really mean this? Is she not giving you the romantic and emotional side of the relationship? Maybe the reason why you got laid so much after those presents was because she felt appreciated and cared for and so it made her happier and more in the mood, not because she was totally prostituting herself, as such, but she still was really.
Anyway, you guys got into a fucked up confusing arrangement...you have no right to demand sex from anyone. Maybe it was kinky for you both at first, I can see that. Do you really want to be with this girl? Have you got something special with her that you can't get/don't want from anyone else? If yes, then talk things over, if no, then leave her.
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Tbh I never thought of it like that. That may be the way she saw it which is fair. We used to do a lot of things out of the bedroom too at first and she was very affectionate then. I can't really place a finger on when it all changed but it'd be wrong to blame it all on her. I myself never really put any effort into finding out why she was now reluctant of our past non sexual activities.
I can't really name anything off the top of my head that nobody else can't give me that she did but I'm terribly fond of her. In actuality replacing her never crossed my mind until I went through these comments.
Can't say I've actually outright demanded sex though. Not in the conventional sense. All I did was withdraw my cards from the table and let her make a move.
The only person that demanded anything here was her, when she wanted money. From what we have to work with here, he isn't guilty of a thing.