Am i becoming a loner?

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Hi. Well i can look like just the average guy around, but recently i have been feeling rather out of ordinary, to the point which i am starting to dread that i have become a loner.

It was just recently, i started to realise that my class hates me, apart from my few close guy friends, all the girls and some guys hates me, and they don't take me seriously or think i am being an 'asshole' in class.

I try to keep to myself then, and i rarely talk in class anymore, afraid that people may hate me. For some reasons, i feel that avoiding interactions with my classmates help to ease the tensions, and perhaps they may change their perceptions of me?

I try to keep to myself most of the time. sometimes my classmates pretend to be neutral to me, but i know they had discussions about me and they have talked about how they disliked me behind my back. I also feel that no one is being truthful to me.

And some time i feel that i am just not good with girls. I have receive compliments on my looks, i am tall and i consider myself to be pleasant looking. But i am awkward with girls and i have a feeling that they want to avoid me.

Lastly, i used to be jovial and lively in my class, and now as time goes by, i feel that perhaps its time to shut myself down and keep to myself. I don't consider myself to be lacking of friends, i wonder if this is normal, and if i should ever become a loner and carry on with my independent life, is it normal?

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  • littlemissgiggles
    12 years ago

    I'm going through the exact same thing except I'm a girl

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  • lil
    12 years ago

    Do you think that your classmates think this stuff and have said things, or do you actually know? Because you may just have some paranoid issues, and I know the word 'paranoid' sounds like a bitchy word but it's actually very common, and there's ways if helping it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    You're*

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  • LifeofLoneliness
    13 years ago

    No, I realy don't think your becoming a loner. Loners tend to be literal, as in no or perhaps just one friend. Everyone else tends to be just aquaintences. Keeping to yourself is a natural proccess of defence against others you believe misunderstand you or are judgemeental. I think your just backing off from these people you are in contact with and as time goes on, you will meet people who will behave differently about you. Just always be yourself so people know what your realy like and if they like you they will befriend you, if not, it's their loss. There is a saying that goes how can you expect others to like you when you don't like yourself? So just be you. I'm sure you'll be fine. The current state of affairs these days seems to be first impressions count rapidly followed by being sterotyped into a category. As for me, I live my life with a simple attitude of if you want to talk to me, talk to me. If you don't, then you don't. Hopefuly you won't feel like this long. Best wishes to you.

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  • emilydoll
    13 years ago

    Far*

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  • emilydoll
    13 years ago

    Calm down, a lot of people go through this. Your completely normal and you're not a loner. You just think to much. Just love yourself and have fun with your life in a healthy way and you'll go fat.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    13 years ago

    Whatever it is that they're saying about you, forget them! You can't stop socializing just because of a few people from your class.

    One day you'll find people who are worth it. They won't think of you as an asshole or whatever those people say you are. They'll stick by you through thick and thin, and you won't have to try so hard to show a good side or vulnerable side, because they'll take the time to search for it themselves. If you really do have a good side to you, they'll find it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Maybe your just really annoying.

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