Am i awful ?

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  • This jumped out at me: "i am 22 old virgin because of religious reasons".

    I easily can see how someone who's very screwed up about sex would find the idea of having sex with someone who's unconscious appealing. When you have sex with someone, they respond - in good ways or bad - to what you're doing, and so you have to acknowledge what you're doing. If the other person is unconscious (or dead), they wouldn't react to your presence in any way, so it wouldn't be like having sex with another person, but rather no more significant or sinful than you masturbating into a sock or a sun-warmed watermelon.

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    • I understand, but i just wanna point out that it's just a fantasy that gets me turned on. If i am to fantasise about having sex with someone i imagine a conscious partner whom i try to please. I think this has to do with something from my childhood as i had this attraction before i even knew what sex is

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      • His statement is still credible I think, you could have noticed certain expectations or something without understanding sex, leading you to feel awkward about intimacy maybe? Since that's how you get started at this point

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