Am i allowed to date someone online and someone else in person?

Pretend I'm dating some girl online. Am I allowed to say I'm looking for aocal to hang out with too? Imagine that in any case I'm waiting until marriage anyway.

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Based on 20 votes (8 yes)
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Comments ( 18 )
  • charli.m

    So you want to have your cake and eat it too?

    You're a jerk.

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    • Kevinevan

      Why is he a jerk? He's not married. He didnt even say he's in a relationship. Since when is dating monogamous??

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  • TheShyGirlFromWork

    If you think you're dating someone online, NEWS FLASH, You're Not.

    Online dating means you met someone online to later meet in person. If you only chat with that person online, then you have a pen-pal, a friend, or just someone who you cybersex with... NOT Dating. Even if you make a "commitment" to not chat with other people... it is still not considered dating simply because you haven't gone on a real date. Perhaps, you share virtual time together, but that's not a date, it's more like you're dating your computer, and there just happens to be other people online at the same time you are, and you can talk to them. No, it's not dating.

    I can see how someone can be confused about this... if they don't date much, or if they are new to dating... but dating means going outside your home, meeting someone, spending time with them, holding hands, kissing, and sharing your lives together - you know, actually having a date.

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    • You are right. I learned it the hard way. My long distance lover left me and got with someone from near her.

      I am still in love.

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    • The_Loitering_Creep

      You don't sound very shy. Perhaps you need a new screen name.

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  • lgk7

    Who are you asking ? Your mother isn't here right now bìtch.

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  • shade_ilmaendu

    If they both know about it and are okay with it, then sure. That would entirely depend on what you and those people would define as okay for the relationship.

    If they don't know or wouldn't be okay with it, then no, that would be cheating.

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  • IcecreamDogs

    You're dating someone on-line and dating someone in person as well? And they don't know about it?

    ...Why?

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    • Knightmare

      Not yet. Talking to a friend online. She knows I'm looking for a relationship, and that I'm interested in her but it'll be really hard to meet up. I asked her this and she's all 'I just want you to be happy'...

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      • IcecreamDogs

        Then she's just a friend.

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  • MR.mr

    not if your online relationship is supposed to be exclusive

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  • The_Great_Flatuloso

    You can have sex with any woman you choose, provided she accepts you. That's the game.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Technically you can do whatever you want, because you have freewill, but as the other commenters have already pointed out we're all free to judge you for being an asshole and a douchebag. It sounds like you want to have your proverbial cake an eat it too, and that basically you're just a bunghole who's only out for himself.

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    • That's the first time I ever heard a woman say bunghole, haha

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      • RoseIsabella

        I'm a big fan of Beavis and Butthead.

        :-)

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        • The_Loitering_Creep

          Me too

          :-)

          There is a certain user here at IIN that has Butthead's schtick down cold. Except instead of saying, "Dumb ass", she says, "Idiot".

          Lol.

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          • RoseIsabella

            Hmm... I dunno.

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            • The_Loitering_Creep

              *wink*

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