Am i a mentally ill or defective girl?

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Im a girl but i never thought guys were interesting aesthetically, but if i see girls in stuff like tight dresses i want to touch them so badly i basically go into a fugue state with desire?? Their poetic and hypnotic bodies, i dont know why they do that to me. Can i get better from this? I thought growing up would sort me out but im 18 so im scared ill be perverted forever. Do girls feel this way sometimes? I used to feel really weird but happy when i saw underwear models in womens fashion catalogues. Im scared ill never become normal. I really feel self hatred about it, but also that it can’t be real, it’s just a defect.

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  • euronymous
    2 years ago

    no, you’re just gay, that’s the most normal thing in the world

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    • Lalalaland900
      1 year ago

      Doesn't necessarily mean gay. She's young. Things evolve. Its normal for all of us to explore our feelings regarding everyone else.

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  • farkelu
    2 years ago

    I think it's a beautiful phase you're going thru, and I'd love to hear about any experiences you have like this!

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  • Somenormie
    2 years ago

    You aren't defective nor mentally ill.

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  • BigDom9in
    2 years ago

    So what.?! You like girls. So do I..
    What is "normal" anyway.?
    What is normal to the spider is chaos for the fly.. 🤷‍♂️
    Normal is what you say is normal, not what others tell you is normal..
    You be you..
    And never ask yourself
    "What does this world need..?"
    Instead ask yourself -
    "What makes me come ALIVE.?!"
    For what this world needs is folks who have come ALIVE.! Love you, Be you.

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  • cherry1
    2 years ago

    absolutely normal! ignore the people who say it isnt. i used to feel like this for so, so long before i discovered different sexuality's like bisexual and pansexual. you are not defective at all, maybe ask yourself if you enjoy dating men, if the answer is no then maybe youre a lesbian- if the answer is yes (and you also like to date women) you could be bi or pan! i would suggest looking into yourself and researching a bit. <3

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  • notthinkig
    2 years ago

    Bisexual is default sexuality

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  • primrose576239
    2 years ago

    don't try to run away from your own self! you may be a lesbian, and there is nothing wrong with it :)
    if this makes you feel better, i thought i was straight (im f) but recently i have been pretty attracted to women, and the thoughts you have- yes. i can relate. feel free to ask me questions about it if you want to

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      So you like both?
      also thank u for being open :)

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      • primrose576239
        2 years ago

        i think so, because i was always attracted to men but damn the females i have been seeing recently..
        but not only that, i think i might be pansexual because just certain type of people speak to me, and it dosent have to be related to their gender :)
        np! i understand the confusion you may be facing ^^

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          2 years ago

          thank u!
          what is it like to be attracted to guys, and what are the parts you find attractive? do you actively want to 'be' with guys you see?

          also can there me a mental block stopping me from being attracted to men?

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          • primrose576239
            2 years ago

            hm so there isn't anything that specific i like about guys- what i mean is , body types i like guys who are fit, but i also like skinny ish guys, but i also like just average guys. i really notice their hair, like chin length hair on guys is really attractive, but also buzz cuts
            i dont necessarily always with to be with the guys i see. i might look at them and think 'yeah they are pretty attractive, what a guy' and just move on then :)
            there is nothing wrong with you not liking guys, cause sexuality is something that is very natural, and usually you might have a preference you might not be aware of when you are younger, but will show more when you do some experimenting!
            but another thing is that one might have too many unpleasant experiences with men, like them always making you feel uncomfortable, so you feel more drawn to women ^^

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  • RoseIsabella
    2 years ago

    Maybe you're a lesbian?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      Ok sorry if this is too personal but do you not feel this way about women? Do you look at guys and feel that way? I don't want to make you uncomfortable but I thought this was normal but maybe it's not.

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      • RoseIsabella
        2 years ago

        No, I don't feel the way you've described about other women.

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      • russellnb
        2 years ago

        I think women are exciting. So gentle and so soft and warm. Such beautiful curves and lovely skin. I find them more gentle than men. I think if i were female I would be attracted to women. I do not know if I would be a lesbian or not but I would deffinately be attracted. I think it is very normal

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      • primrose576239
        2 years ago

        its normal! i think about that a lot, for both the genders

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  • SkullsNRoses
    2 years ago

    Feelings of homosexual attraction are not a “defect” nor are they something you can change about yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. I recommend going on some online forums about coming to terms with being LGBT+.

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    2 years ago

    You'll never stop liking chics at this point. Everyone is gonna comment and preach how normal and ok it is. Its up to you whether you think it's degenerate or not. But whether it is or not theres a lot of ppl out there that dont think it is. In western countries nobody cares if you're lesbian.

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