Many people have had the same thoughts but have not been honest enough to share it as you have done. My ex-wife once told me that she had an attraction towards other women but thought that this was something natural between females in a competitive way. She later confessed to me that she would have liked to have had a sexual experience with another woman but she never did. My ex-wife's attitudes and desires towards other women didn't ruin her life or cause her to stop having a family. The irony is, that she went off with another man. Anyway, being gay or bi in this day and age doesn't stop you from having a family. All the best.
I am not sure what you mean but I do know that my post might be a bit confusing to you. Only you know which way to go, that is why you are seeking the obvious advice. You might start a relationship with a man for the sake of your family but is this what you want?
My ex-wife might have had the desire for another woman but she chose her own path. However, having children outside of the norm of the 'conventional relationship' doesn't exclude you from having a family even in a gay relationship. So, follow your own heart. All the best.
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Many people have had the same thoughts but have not been honest enough to share it as you have done. My ex-wife once told me that she had an attraction towards other women but thought that this was something natural between females in a competitive way. She later confessed to me that she would have liked to have had a sexual experience with another woman but she never did. My ex-wife's attitudes and desires towards other women didn't ruin her life or cause her to stop having a family. The irony is, that she went off with another man. Anyway, being gay or bi in this day and age doesn't stop you from having a family. All the best.
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how can you be attracted in a competitive way? What is her theory?
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I am not sure what you mean but I do know that my post might be a bit confusing to you. Only you know which way to go, that is why you are seeking the obvious advice. You might start a relationship with a man for the sake of your family but is this what you want?
My ex-wife might have had the desire for another woman but she chose her own path. However, having children outside of the norm of the 'conventional relationship' doesn't exclude you from having a family even in a gay relationship. So, follow your own heart. All the best.