FIRST OFF - DONT be so quick to put yourself in a labeled box. Who cares. I know that probably 99.99% of us on here dont know you, will probably never meet uou. You talk about womens breasts, i am a bi-curious crossdressing male. I have thought what it would be interesting to have real boo s lol. But if you really need to know if you are lesbian, bi, or straight if you have a best female friend that you might could talk to about your thoughts and see if she would be willing to help you explore. When i did yrs ago i started it off with a few good stiff drinks. Bacardi and coke if i remember. Anyway if you have a very good friend you can talk to or you might just end up holding it n until you are ready to talk abou to it. And last, dont be afraid to just do what makes you feel good.
You can't forget about it. All you can do is fantasize about women when you have sex with your husband. DON'T DO THIS. Quiet desparation will make you and your husband miserable, and your family completely toxic.
I'm not desperate because I filter out sexual thoughts and by habit don't get them very much. It took effort but it doesn't bother me now. My family isn't toxic and would still love me if I didn't marry a man, but I think some of them would be disappointed, and I am definitely expected to have children. I'm just trying to stay in line with what people before me did because I think it's right. I just wanted to know what I really felt.
Of course you are not desperate; filtering works fine if you are single. If you marry a man, filtering will not work anymore. You will become desperate and your life will be ruined.
I guess you're right about the filtering. But I'm attracted to men so it will be okay. And when you love someone, they become special to you, so I will be fine. It's like when women who like men are married don't want to be with other guys just because they're straight. When you love someone, properly, they are definitely different, so it should solve it.
I have done what has been called " putge" to get rid of anyhing related to, in my case crossdressing. I have read of others dking it to help them "get past" or to help them like you said "live a normal life." These days just what the hell is normal. I bet if you ask 10 people their idea of normal, i bet you get 8-9 different answers. Something imprinted in your thoughts is not as easy to walk away from.
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FIRST OFF - DONT be so quick to put yourself in a labeled box. Who cares. I know that probably 99.99% of us on here dont know you, will probably never meet uou. You talk about womens breasts, i am a bi-curious crossdressing male. I have thought what it would be interesting to have real boo s lol. But if you really need to know if you are lesbian, bi, or straight if you have a best female friend that you might could talk to about your thoughts and see if she would be willing to help you explore. When i did yrs ago i started it off with a few good stiff drinks. Bacardi and coke if i remember. Anyway if you have a very good friend you can talk to or you might just end up holding it n until you are ready to talk abou to it. And last, dont be afraid to just do what makes you feel good.
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can't do anything until marriage bro. thinking i will just say im straight and forget about it so i can live a normal life
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You can't forget about it. All you can do is fantasize about women when you have sex with your husband. DON'T DO THIS. Quiet desparation will make you and your husband miserable, and your family completely toxic.
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I'm not desperate because I filter out sexual thoughts and by habit don't get them very much. It took effort but it doesn't bother me now. My family isn't toxic and would still love me if I didn't marry a man, but I think some of them would be disappointed, and I am definitely expected to have children. I'm just trying to stay in line with what people before me did because I think it's right. I just wanted to know what I really felt.
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Of course you are not desperate; filtering works fine if you are single. If you marry a man, filtering will not work anymore. You will become desperate and your life will be ruined.
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I guess you're right about the filtering. But I'm attracted to men so it will be okay. And when you love someone, they become special to you, so I will be fine. It's like when women who like men are married don't want to be with other guys just because they're straight. When you love someone, properly, they are definitely different, so it should solve it.
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Wishful thinking.
I have done what has been called " putge" to get rid of anyhing related to, in my case crossdressing. I have read of others dking it to help them "get past" or to help them like you said "live a normal life." These days just what the hell is normal. I bet if you ask 10 people their idea of normal, i bet you get 8-9 different answers. Something imprinted in your thoughts is not as easy to walk away from.