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I'm a strong feminist, whenever I see something unfair happening to women, I feel really angry. My best. Friend had this dream where I was a lesbian and she was running away, because she thought it was gross. She thought I was a lesbian and, therefore obviously had some wierd crush on her. I'm not even sure if I'm a lesbian now. I guess I've lost a best friend over it. It's not like I have a problem with lesbians, but my best friend seems to! I don't know what to do!
It's possible to be a strong feminist and not be lesbian and vice versa and of course to be both, but I don't understand what your problem is. It sounds as if your "best friend" has a BIG problem if she believes whatever she dreams about another person is true and I reckon it's more likely she's attracted to you and that's why she freaked out about her dream.
My tranny wife individual Dorn Keane sometimes jacks off to lesbian porn situation because she can't get off to me because I am a Mac n' Cheese addicted manatee individual. When I catch her doing this situation, I am sure to beat her teeth out and make her give me a gumjob situation.
How does being a feminist make you a lesbian? Caring about the unfair treatment of women doesn't automatically mean you're sexually attracted to them.
By that logic, people who care about animals are sexually attracted to them. It's silly.
But if you're having doubts, just wait it out. I know it might be frustrating to have that confusion, but really the BEST way to test if you're gay/lesbian or bisexual is to see if it's a consistent thing. If you're experiencing exclusive attraction to other women, and you're still feeling that way in a few months, then yes there's a good chance you're a lesbian.
In which case, welcome to the LGBT club! I'm a gay man, nothing wrong with it (whatever the religious nutjobs are telling you, it's not a choice).
Gay woman here, happily and unashamedly lesbian.
Nothing that anyone else thinks or feels decides or changes your sexuality. If you are not sexually attracted to women you must not be a lesbian. If you are attracted to women sometimes, or are unsure about whether you are, thats perfectly normal and does not necessarily mean you are or will become a lesbian. You should never be ashamed of or apologise for your sexuality, it is simply part of who you are and will be your whole life. Denying how you really feel to yourself and for the sake of other people will stand in your way of happiness and being comfortable in your own skin.
Someone who calls themselves your friend should not judge you or make you feel ashamed or dirty because of your sexuality. And nothing you dream or someone else dreams about you can change anything physically.
We are supposed to stand up for each other, your best friend's dream may have been about herself or she just didn't think of you as besties anymore. Either way no way that makes you a lesbian and if you are so what?? You just live your life how you see fit. A new best friend will come around.