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For years I've been attracted to girls. I've had girl friends, I've also had boy friends. I still like guys... but i dont liek them like i do girls. Girls turn me on more then guys do. I usually tell people im bisexual... but I'm not sure, I might be a lesbian... and im not sure my friends will reject me, is that normal?
You could be bi. Usually bisexual people lean more towards one gender than the other.
I'm the same way, but I'm a guy. I get turned on by women more easily than men, and I usually prefer women, but I also get turned on by men occasionally. I think I'm bisexual so that's what I tell people.
Guys like to see 2 hot girls together.............other than that........you're Butch
well the reason why u feel this way is because, your human. men and women have the same ability to see beauty and we are attracted to that beauty. lets face it women are naturally beautiful their soft skin curvy shape. its somewhat to the brain like a flower. so its perfectly normal for you to be attracted to both. the way i see it their shouldn't be any labels were human we like what we like. the one thing that sets us to the right path is religion. but even the bible said to love your neighbors brother and sisters (men and women) it said its an abomination for same sex to have sex intercourse, why because its simply unnatural your anus wasn't meant to be rammed and toys and vibrators are man made for the vagina. but then whats love without sex lol. i dont see a problem with to men or two women who wanna love each other. also put in mind what you want for your future if your young hey buy all means do what makes you happy but as you get older you'll see that females do have expiration dates and they wont look as good as they did when they were 20. you dont wanna be carpet munching barbara walters lol. and if you want a familly hey u know the path to choose. hope that helps
from my personal experience with gay friends, 99%% of them have had sexual experiences with both genders and even after labeling themselves as gay or lesbian most still find at least some people of the opposite sex sexually attractive.either way, why limit yourself to only women or only men. just go with whoever makes you randy at the time. your friends will understand. lesbian isn't a far cry from bisexual. but live it up, don't close your borders.
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Yes, you could be bi or even lesbian. I know lesbians that had boyfriends and today sure are lesbians. Turned out they were just afraid of rejection so they stayed in the closet pretending to be straight.
Have you ever taken kinsey scale test? You can find easily on Google.
I believe everyone living -- even the haters -- are bi but restricted by custom, culture, peer pressure etc. Be yourself and find out what you prefer.
I Identify as a lesbian but i am occasional attracted to men so i don't think its odd. For me i believe its an open mind thing. im open to any and almost all possibilities. So i tell people i am a lesbian, but i will not exclude men from the probability of liking men
Hey-- just read your post. We feel similarly... Do you guys think we are bi or maybe lesbian? http://isitnormal.com/story/iin-that-two-girl-bffs-like-to-make-each-other-horny-and-make-out-146418/?n=y
thank you sooo much.
Go with the gender you lean torse more. I haveknown many likethis when they go to the one they like less they are unhappy and often cheat orconsider cheating. Usually if they find a good relationship with the gender they most desire they sometimes lose attraction to the gender the least liked. So if you like men more and date a man you like alotit might go away but ifyou most like women find the perfect one for you. You do not to have to take mysuggestions however it us your chioce.
Just decide if you like girls or boys better or both I'm the same way but I chose girls.
I think bisexual is okay..
I mean sometimes i think about girls alot more then i do guys but
... Who knows really lol
i think about girls sexually and i wanna act on it and get my pussy licked and at least test it out. but i would say if u havent tested it out then u will never really know. and i mean eve just kiss a girl it doesnt have to be pussy licking or stuff like that .
I'm the same exact way!
I Just say I'm Bi
But I'm Deff. More Attracted to girls :)
Guru rationalist says the answer is in the question. "Girls turn me on more then guys do." But why label yourself? Friends who would reject you for being yourself are not really friends.
theres no such thing as bi-sexual im guessing you have had sexual contact with both sexes which ever time made you feel better then thats the sex you are more attracted to i no it aint as simple as that but it will give you a sure sign
Its ok to feel confused about these things. Dont get stressed about the way people think of you. Just talk about it with some one with the same thing or someone u can trust. Good luck
it upsets me to hear other people say that being bi-sexual does not exist. just gotta get that off my chest first of all. i have been bi-sexual my whole life, but always A LOT more attracted to females. i mistakenly told everyone i knew in 2007 that i was a lesbian, because my attraction to women was so much stronger than to males. then i met a guy i totally fell for, & we have been together ever since. it was awkward & slightly rocky explaining to him about being a "lesbian"
so my advice to you is don't label yourself, & be proud of being bi. its nothing to be ashamed of.