Am i a lesbian?

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Hi.. I wonder if im lesbian or not.. I always look at guys when i am out. And i really want a boyfriend. (I just broke up with my ex bf). But i had a weird dream that i kissed/ wanted to kiss a girl in my class soo bad. I dont know why. And when i saw her the next day i felt akward because she is a close friend of mine and i did not have any thoughts of her in that way... Its some weeks ago now and i dont wanna kiss her now like i did in the dream.. I have never had a girl crush and im so confused. I dont wanna tell her because she will just missunderstand...
When we shower naked after gym i have never looked at anyone or felt intrested in their body..
What am i? And is this normal?

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  • wistfulmaiden
    9 years ago | pl

    Having a lesbian dream doesn't mean anything. I dream that I'm a man, a mermaid and a horse. If you don't feel attracted to girls awake your probably not gay.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Ok, thank you :)

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  • mistake2signup
    9 years ago

    thats cute. ur probally not gay, and at most - ur bi.

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  • Aj;)
    9 years ago

    since u felt awkward wn u saw her , u r nt tht knida person ... be urslf n enjoy ur life ...

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Okei, thanks :)

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  • Robotdaydream
    9 years ago

    I dont know. Are you?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      I dont think so, but i dont know

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      • Robotdaydream
        9 years ago

        I don't think you are either

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  • 213
    9 years ago

    i suggest you give it a try ,you don't know what you be might be missing.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      I cant, she has a bf... And she is not lesbian at all. And i dont want to, i dont feel like kissing her anymore.. So thats why it is so confuseing...

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  • BlueReverence
    9 years ago

    If you have strong desires of companionship and affection toward her then you may be lesbian. Just because you don't think about her sexually doesn't mean you're not a lesbian. Either way be happy with yourself and accept the person you become.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      What do tou think? I can try to explain how it is..
      When i see her i dont get that type of "rush" or butterflies or anything like that like i did with my ex boyfriend.. I find it fun to hang out with her cuz she is really funny and we play at the same soccer team so we always have something to talk about. But before i had that dream, i looked at her lips, and i felt that i wanted to kiss her. But that just happend ones. A week later i had the dream. In the dream we was just messing around, and she wanted to do other stuff, and i felt like i wanted to but i dident because i was afraid that someone would see us or something. I remember that i was thinking in the dream that i dont want people think im a lesbian...
      What do you think? I have never dreamed about her before..

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      • BlueReverence
        9 years ago

        I see...great job explaining how you feel!

        From what you've said so far, it sounds like you're bi-curious. This means you're someone who seeks a male partner but may find yourself attracted to certain females. You appreciate the beauty of girls and might be open to flirting or being sexually expressive with another girl some day. But you're right. Don't tell her how you feel for the time being. If she's not bi-curious then she won't understand. Enjoy being her friend! If someday you want to explore with a girl, explore with someone youre not as close with. That way if its awkward, no big deal...

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          9 years ago

          Thank you! Even tho the thought of me being bi sexual is scarey.. Thank you :)

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          • BlueReverence
            9 years ago

            Why is it scary??

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              9 years ago

              Because i dident thought i was bi, or bi curious... And its a new and just scarey

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